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Friday, November 19, 2010

Light A Candle For Candace....











They cry in the dark, so you can't see their tears
They hide in the light, so you can't see their fears
Forgive and forget, all the while
Love and pain become one and the same
In the eyes of a wounded child
Because Hell
Hell Is For Children
And you know that their little lives
Can become such a mess
Hell
Hell Is For Children
And you shouldn't have to pay for your love with your bones and your flesh
Because Hell
Hell Is For Children
And you know that their little lives can become such a mess
Hell
Hell Is For Children
And you shouldn't have to pay for your love with your bones and your flesh
No, Hell Is For Children
Hell
Hell is for Hell
Hell is for Hell
Hell Is For Children
Hell
Hell is for Hell
Hell is for Hell
Hell Is For Children...........

And Hell IS Attachment Therapy..........







Sorry all you nutjobs out there, like Jeane Newmaker, Connell Watkins and Julie Ponder, but you can NOT take an Adopted child who ALREADY LIVED WITH HER NATURAL MOTHER WHO SHE REMEMBERS and physically force her to believe her Adoptive Mother gave birth to her....
And THEN on top of that, verbally abuse her and physically restrain her because she fights you on it.
It is wrong imo, to do the same to Adoptees Adopted as infants or Adopted from another country as they all know reality is they WERE carried inside another woman, ESPECIALLY WHEN THAT CHILD IS TOLD HE OR SHE IS ADOPTED.
DUH......
DAMN.
GET SOME SMART PILLS.......





Rebirthing Therapy" or "Attachment Therapy" is nothing but a gateway to push Adoptees into a psychotic mindset.
And this is bonafide child abuse.
Yet this quackery still goes on every day in this country.
And some Adopted children do not survive it.....

PLEASE LIGHT A CANDLE TODAY FOR CANDACE.
FOR ALL THE BIRTHDAYS SHE HAS MISSED.
FOR ALL THE BIRTHDAYS SHE WILL NEVER HAVE......
WHEN I BLOW OUT MY BIRTHDAY CANDLES TODAY, I WILL BE THINKING OF HER........
AND MY WISH?
THAT IS ONLY FOR ME AND CANDACE TO KNOW........




Candace Newmaker (Elmore)
November 19th 1989-April 18th 2000




2 comments:

  1. Thank you for keeping Candace Tierra's memory alive. I know Candace's birth family and their family circumstances gave them the belief that her adoption to Jean Newmaker (a single woman) would offer Candace opportunities in life they could not.

    Jean Newmaker was a pediatric nurse & sat in the room during the rebirthing session that murdered Candace, a 10 year-old child.

    I was in court the day Connell Watkins was handcuffed and taken away. I want to add that Judge Tidball (sp?) found no intent to harm. But for a law in Colorado stating that child-abuse resulting in death required a 16-42 year sentence, both therapists would have walked! As it was, Tidball gave them the minimum - 16 years. Watkins served her term and is back on the street.

    Candace's birth family loved and adored her and the depth of pain her tortured death brought her family was inconsolable.

    Thank you again, for remembering Candace Tiarra's memory alive.

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  2. And thank you for coming over to my blog and reading my post Jeanette. What happened to Candace haunts me as it is symptomatic of the underlying attitudes of the Adoption Industry and many Adoptive Parents towards us. I am so tired of the unfairness and the helplessness so many Adoptees suffer. And I will always be livid that this beautiful little girl lost her life and never had a chance to be and do what she wanted to do with HER life. The Adoption system and the Psychiatric system both need to DRASTICALLY change as they are both nothing less than condescending and abusive to children. And it makes me livid as well that even after the hell Candace went through, people still fail to fix these systems and that Watkins walks. Take care Jeanette.

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