MY BLOG IS STILL VIRUS FREE AND SPOOKIECATS AND HER FRIENDS ARE VIOLENT CRIMINALS WHO HAVE BEEN ARRESTED AND THROWN IN JAIL

(The link to Michael McDade' blog is fixed for the moment. It was compromised after I published this post)
spookiecats or Suzanne Hayes is part of a radical, militant and violent terrorist group whose founder and leader, Camille Marino, is currently serving jail time in Florida.
Marino is the owner of a website that instructs Vegan Activists to kill other people called Negotiation Is Over!
THIS WEBSITE ALSO HAS LINKS TO INSTRUCT PEOPLE HOW TO HACK INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S COMPUTERS.
Something I have said spookiecats has been doing to me for a long time.
These psychotic sentiments and acts do not just apply to the animal testers they hate however.
This group of unsound lunatics, including spookiecats will destroy anyone they do not like by making their victims look bad very publicly and committing a multitude of immature slander acts that make them look grotesquely immoral as well.
You can read about Marino's arrest here and see a picture of this woman who looks as unglued as spookiecats does, especially in the link I provide in my post I'm Leaving Blogger that takes you to pictures of her.
If one types Suzanne Hayes spookiecats into Google many links will come up that will lead you to quite a few websites that prove I am far from alone in the cybertorture and disgusting lies I have suffered from spookiecats over the last 6 years.
Suzanne Hayes lies like she breaths.
She Tweets and posts as I have already stated that abolishadoption blogspot has a virus that will take one's whole system down despite that fact that as I also have stated McAFee and Norton prove otherwise.
And as I have also said many times before, she has four blogs up about me now where she constantly makes things up about me, and makes fun of the pain I feel from the Adoption System (which she did from the very first time I was contacted by her) and the age group I am in.
(And I would not be surprised if some of these type of psycho Animal Activists are the Adoptive Parents spookiecats said "sent her" to shut me up about the Adoption System on Myspace).
But she also put up more than one blog about another person she horribly victimized named Michael McDade.
Read what he has to say about her here.
He says the same exact things that Amy and I said for years.
That she is psychotic and that CPS should be (and was apparently) called on her.
If you look to the left of Michael McDade's blog that the link above will take you to, you will see the names of other people also involved with spookiecats.
Another woman named Nikki Craft, who has also been in jail and two men named Sunny Umrao and Rob Pike.
Nauseating reading about them as well.
I am pretty sure they also sent me comments via spookiecats orders because I am aware of where they live and those locations are all over my statcounter all the time just like Suzanne Hayes location is.
Then there is a man named Fabrizo Cordereo who spookiecats also put a terrible and rude blog up about last year.
Everyone knows by now that spookiecats had trashed Amy Burt on two of her blogs all the time (actually three, one called The Abusive Adoptees that still follows this blog, which I have blocked) where she stills trashes me, along with two more she uses to whip me with, but she also trashed Amy's husband when they were together, trying to ruin his business and then she trashed Don and his girlfriend Lisa all over those blogs after he and Amy broke up.
(One of spookiecats goals was to ruin my friendship with Amy which she succeeded in doing).
While she also harassed, spammed and stalked Gershom, Joy and Cassi.
That is ten people in total that spookiecats, Suzanne Hayes, has abused, terrorized, exploited, tried to destroy and lied about.
Ten that I know about.
Who knows how many others there are that I don't.
There are also many Tweeter accounts where spookiecats as usual is calling people insane, bipolar, mentally ill, a stalker, a cyberpath, her usual fabrications and white trash language that drops 100 F bombs a day.
One Twitter account is rpikelies.
This account will lead you to others.
There are many good Animal Activists out there people.
Activists that are polite, gentle, nonjudgmental and do not rip other people apart alive the way spookiecats and her "comrades" as she calls them in the beyond mean comments she has sent me do.
People who would not kill other people or make them feel they intend physical harm towards them.
But people like Camille Marino, and spookiecats use animal rights as an excuse to vent the rage and hate they have inside because they are unsound and mentally ill to begin with.
(Yes, I hate vivisection and animal testing with every ounce of my being too, but I don't burn down people's property or put up websites indicating testers should be murdered....)
The way spookiecats, Suzanne Hayes REACTS or OVER OVER OVER REACTS, is complete and total proof of this.
She goes totally postal if anyone criticizes her at all about anything and begins to attack that person ALL OVER CYBERSPACE, DAY AFTER DAY AFTER DAY....
She has a compulsive lying problem and a NEED, A STRONG NEED, to hurt other human beings as much as she can.
She is now calling me a pedophile because of some blog written 4 years ago that has a post on it that says spookie engages in bestiality with cats and then has another post entry separate from that one that says her child is ugly. Some blog that cuts down and makes fun of spookiecats with those two separate posts on it is not putting her child on an Xrated blog which she constantly states.
(She also lies about what the police have said which shows how insanely arrogant she is and that I admitted I wrote it which I never did. The police don't even care about this entire subject, that blog, but spookie won't shut the hell up about it nor will she stop writing about me like she was told by them to).
But as usual spookie is illogical and twists the truth.
AND FOR HER TO CALL ME A PEDOPHILE IS NOT ONLY THE MOST  SERIOUS SLANDER AND LIBEL IT IS ALSO UNFORGIVABLE.
COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY UNFORGIVABLE.
BECAUSE CALLING ME THAT IS BIGGEST LIE ON EARTH.
And for her to do that after I have been A VICTIM OF SEXUAL CRIME AND MORE THAN ONCE is also unforgivable too.
And that POdirtyS CAN GO TO HELL.
And THAT is where she is going.
DAMN STRAIGHT.
She has a lot of nerve to do this too since SHE is the one involved in criminal activity as she is part of and supports websites and Animal Right groups THAT TELL IT'S MEMBERS TO ALSO KILL THE CHILDREN OF THE ANIMAL TESTERS THEY HATE.
Like Negotiation Is Over! does.
And Tweets on their behalf.

People like spookiecats ALWAYS GO OVER THE LINE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SOUND WHILE THEY TRY TO DRIVE OTHERS OVER IT AS WELL.
SPOOKIECAT'S ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR AND MENTAL ILLNESS IS A MENANCE AND IT EFFECTS OTHER PEOPLE'S HEALTH CONSTANTLY.
Everyone who cannot stand her is quite familiar with how unbelievably irrational she always is and how she twists the truth and turns it into a lie JUST to smear people.
To get others to hate people she hates.
She also purposely ignores the good that her victims do when assigning herself judge, jury and executioner like she has.
She has been constantly taunting me for years saying I never help animals while bragging about what a wonderful Animal Activist she is.
Oh I'm so perfect, blah, blah, blah.
But of course as always Suzanne Hayes badgers and hollers without ever knowing what she is talking about.
She brags all her cats are rescues.
Well most of mine have been too.
One I saved years ago by taking him to an animal hospital far away from my home because he was blocked.
The losers who dumped him on my street never cared about him.
They abused him too.
He would of died if I hadn't done something.
The worst kind of death a male cat can die.
My sweet Sammy Jones...
His bladder exploding.
And I'll tell ya none of my neighbors gave a damn...
They never did anything for him.
And even though it was hard for me to care for and keep another cat I did keep him even though I was was promised by an organization they would find a home for him but then refused too.
I doubt if spookiecats cares either about the time I stood out in the cold getting a petition signed for 3 days against HLS.
Or all the animals hit by cars I saw on the road I took to vets.
Or all the petitions I have signed online.
Or all the other acts of kindness I've done for  animals and other people as well.
Despite the fact that I have had a really hard life and could of just not given a damn like a lot of people don't.
No, she doesn't care about ANY good I or anyone she rips apart has ever done, or who we really are either.
All she cares about is whose life she can make miserable and how much destruction is in her power to carry out.
Because of her sick violent urges to scream at everyone at the top of her lungs.
And laugh when she brings her victims literally to tears.
And leave us feeling so horribly violated.

This is the last post I am going to write about spookiecats.
I am tired of the 7th grade mean girl act she has made her entire personality.
Her entire life.
Her entire mind heart and soul.
Mature adults deal with what she has done to me and others offline in another way that is legal.
And that is what I am going to do.
But please, if you are ever victimized by spookiecats and the mentally unbalanced people she associates herself with, people who call up such people as Michael McDade and scream into his voicemail 7 times that they are going to kill him (which is why Amy and I both felt spookiecats was going to physically harm us due to the intensity of her cyberbullying and the psychotic way which she comes off), please know you are not alone.
And then do something about it to protect yourself through the authorities.
spookiecats has chosen trying to crush people as what she wants to do with her life.
She spends all her time hurting and lying about other people online which of course leaves no time to really help animals.
And the Vegans I do know and the Animal Activists I know as well NEVER act like this woman does.
For they are as kind to other people as they are to a stray dog on the street.
A kindness no one will ever, ever see from the nightmare called Suzanne Hayes aka spookiecats.
Online or off in my quite, quite, educated opinion.......

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 I keep getting some really hateful comments from a certain blogger. She has threatened in the past in some of these comments. I am fed up. I am tired of it. Someone please help me. She created a blog to attack me and several others.
 Her name is Suzanne.
 Her ip address is the following:
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AMYADOPTEE View profile
 Nov 29 2008, 11:43 am
 From: AMYADOPTEE
 Date: Sat, 29 Nov 2008 08:43:14 -0800 (PST)
 This is what I am dealing with. She stalks me and several others
 where ever we go. Is there anyway to stop this individual? She is
 cyberbulling everyone involved in the adoptee rights movement.

TEST MY BLOG URL ON MCAFEE: IT IS SAFE AND SEE WHAT A LIAR SPOOKIECATS REALLY IS....

And here is the proof. A screenshot I just took using McAfee on their website.
(Please click on the picture to see it perfectly clear).
spookiecats is one of the most immature liars you will EVER meet....and someone please tell me why this vegan, as she claims she is, has a LEATHER COUCH?!  Hmmm look at the picture of her holding her cat she says she named her handle after in this link.....
In the third row of pictures. What is that in the background? Why it is black dead cow skin!
And next to the big artificial tree?
A black dead cow skin loveseat!
Of course she'll lie and deny it and say that picture was not taken where she lives or some other manure so typical of her.....
I don't believe spookiecats is an animal rights activist at all. I think she just uses that tittle for a cover to scream her psychotic brains out, scare away the real good activists of all sorts and make the lives of victimized people a living hell, online and off just for the fun of it.
Just because she thinks she can.
Or can she?......

Go To Hell spookiecats and NO My Blog Is Not Infected With A Virus......

Well the immature, compulsive, neurotic LIAR is at again. Tweeting that there is a Trojan on my blog and it is infected with some virus just so people will not read the truth about her in my post "I'm Leaving Blogger". There is nothing wrong with this site at all and any Norton Security Software will tell you that and so will many others. She is also in vicious, vengeful and mentally ill  mode as usual, saying on her blog I search the internet for porn. UNBELEIVABLE......There is just NOTHING, NO LIE AT ALL that won't come out of her foul, dirty and corrupt mouth is there? spookiecats cannot get over anything, ever, especially the fact that I never wrote a blog she won't shut up the hell up about. And truth be told, after cyber torturing Amy Burt and I EVERY SINGLE DAY FOR 3 YEARS STRAIGHT, AND SPAMMING SO MANY PEOPLE WITH SO MANY INSANE AND HORRIFYING COMMENTS in Adoption Bloggerland, WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT WAS EVER SAID TO HER? WHAT A TOTAL HYPOCRITE!!!! spookiecats cut down Amy's kids and made crude comments about my child and she has the gall to complain someone called her son ugly. Oh boo hoo. Yet that is spookiecats.....she wants to cybermurder people's hearts all day online and then makes a federal case out of it if people cut her down back. What a total narcissist. Yes, like I have said 100 times, her immaturity and need for revenge is a form OF TOTAL INSANITY. So is the amount of hate she has in her which is SOOO evident when she has 4 blogs up about me, tweets about me, puts my name on cyberabuse websites when she started bullying me first and KNOWS IT.
spookiecats has NO self-control what so ever.
So unless you want to be compulsively lied about as I am all the time, continue to stay away from her. Most people do....check out her Twitter....no one ever tweets her she only retweets all alone...what she has done to me has only come back and kicked her in the face because no one wants to be around someone as barbaric and dangerous as her.....
And lest no one forget:
spookiecats HATES HATES HATES ADOPTEES AND ADOPTEE RIGHTS.
AND SHE IS THE BASTARD BASHING BIGOT FROM HELL......
so watch your back...
I do not want to get into posting about this disease in human form called spookieitis again but I will post to counteract her lies since she has to be a foot stomping baby and tries to beat me up because I published a comment I got from someone who does not like her.
This lunatic has no backbone what so ever...
What a pathetic, pathetic way to be...

I Was Quoted In Atlantic Magazine AND...

OF COURSE there has to be a comment such as this.....
Not just thrown at me ("an adult adoptee") but at Claudia Corrigan D'Arcy (Faux Claud), Lynn Grubb, the entire Adoptee Rights Coalition who were also quoted in this wonderful article written by Emily Matchar and apparently every Adoptee and Relinquishing Natural Mother on earth......

Pragmatist • 5 hours ago
"I strongly disagree with this echo chamber of self-serving pity and faux-outrage. Access to your birth certificate is NOT a right implicated by the 14th Amendment nor is it some human rights issue. Get real. Adoptive parents are the heros here. It's people like those moaning with self-righteousness in these comments that make adoption a undesirable option for many adoptive parents even when there are thousands of kids who need decent parents to adopt them.
The rights of biological parents DO NOT matter because they gave up those rights. Period. If there is evidence of coercion, then you have a legal route to address it. But, in almost all cases, it has nothing to do with coercion or even poor process. It is simply the selfishness of biological parents who regret their decision(s) and now feel like they have a right to be a part of their biological child's life. WRONG.
Adoptive parents deserve more rights and consideration that b-parents who give up on their children and/or relinquish their responsibilities. At the very least, birth certificates should be kept sealed until the adopted child has become an adult. Then they can evaluate their b-parents with a maturity that recognizes the dynamics at play. If a b-parent wants to be involved in that child's life as an adult, that's fine, in my book.
But all of you bleeding hearts might want to cast a more critical eye on your self-righteous outrage. Personally, I find it pathetic and unbelievably self-centered."

Is your head spinning like mine?
I bet Pragmatist's head is too.
Like Linda Blair in The Exorcist.....
Hell, I don't even know where to START with this little ditty......
But if I felt like getting in to it with "Pragmatist" in the comment section of this article
(which I don't)......
I suppose I would begin by making these poignant points......
How in the name of all the Gods can you actually say Closed Adoption is NOT a human rights issue?
For what is MORE human than knowing who conceived you, carried and bore you?
And being conceived, carried and born from another human being the first place?
For without these very basic yet personal acts, there would BE NO HUMAN BEINGS AT ALL ON THE FACE OF THIS PLANET.
NO ONE exists without their Mother.
OR BEING A PART OF THEIR MOTHER'S BODY.
OR THEIR FATHER'S.
So for anyone to ever say Closed Adoption ISN'T a human rights issue is, quite bluntly out of their  bloomin mind....
So are the people who seem to think Adoptees should not, would not, will not care about who they are related to by blood on this earth, when those who do embrace those insensitive and infuriating mindsets love to indulge in the knowledge they have about their own bloodline.
And even learning more about it.
Going to this Genealogy site here and that Genealogy site there...
And not caring for one moment that millions of people in this world are legally barred from having the freedom to do this, without EVER being asked if that is what we ever wanted or if this would be good for us to begin with.
Which brings me to my second point...
No Pragmatist, it DID and still DOES have to do with coercion.
In many different forms.....
The majority of single Biological Mothers ARE coerced into giving up their babies today, by social workers who are employed by Adoption Agencies and by manipulative and deceptive PAP's who have even exposed this fact by the treacherous remarks they have made on their ego-centric, nauseating blogs.
The short and not so sweet version of this dire situation is pointed out quite bluntly in my post below entitled Keep Your Baby Pie......
I invite you to read it....
Coercion was also the barbaric order of the day in the BSE era.....
So much so, that the incredible Prime Minister of Australia, Julia Gillard has apologized to all Mothers, Fathers and Adoptees in her
country that were forced to endure this unmerciful act...
I invite you to watch this You Tube video as well.....
While all Natural Mothers, Fathers and Adoptees in this country wait for our apology too....
From people,  just like you, who REALLY need to  ponder what the word "maturity" REALLY means.
To be continued....

And The Grand Prize Winner Is.....

CONGRADUFRIGGINLATIONS TO BOTH OF YOU!!!

Looks like we had a tie!
There are however, no losers in The Flying Monkey Awards!
For all are Winners in the practice of abuse, deceit, bigotry and manipulation....

Here are the results:

Who Should Win The Flying Monkey Award?

    1    
    21.13% (15 votes)
    Herbert H. Lehman:
    Elitist And Governor Of NY in 1936 Who First Legally Barred All Adoptees
From Their Own Birth Information And Bloodlines By Legalizing Closed Adoption Records In His State
    2    
    21.13% (15 votes)
    Senator Ann Rivers:
    For Recently Demanding An Opt Out For Biological Mothers After Trying To Block A Bill In 2012 To Open Adoption Records In Washington State
    3    
    19.72% (14 votes)
    Troy Dunn:
    For Attacking Dusten Brown On The Dr. Phil Show For Trying To Get Custody Of His Own Daughter Veronica Who Was Adopted Out Behind His Back
    4    
    14.08% (10 votes)
    Mormon Adoption Agencies:
    For Paying Off Single Pregnant Women To Keep The Fathers Of Their Child Out Of The Child's Life So They Can't Try To Stop Adopting The Child Out
    5    
    14.08% (10 votes)
    The Catholic Church And The Knights Of Columbus:
For Fighting To Keep Open Adoption Bills From Passing Through Congress 
    6    
    14.08% (10 votes)
    Daniel O'Donnell:
    A Homosexual Activist Who Demands Gay Marriage Becomes Legal Nationwide And Then Tries To Keep Adoption Records Closed To All Adoptees

Statistics
Votes:     74


So as you can see, First Place is awarded to Troy Dunn who back stabbed all Adoptees and Biological Parents by trashing Dusten Brown and the ICWA on the media circus show Dr. Phil (who may get nominated next year at the rate he is going).
Second Place is also a tie, the winners being Troy Dunn's corrupt Cult, I mean Church of choice, the infuriating Mormons and their immoral Adoption practices, the obnoxious Catholic Church and their cronies The Knights of Columbus and last but not least the big fat hypocrite and Biological Mother and Adoptee harasser/basher Daniel O'Donnell.
Incidentally I found these two articles concerning Herbert H. Lehman interesting as one states one of his family members was the of owner of slaves in the 1800's while the other one states how his kin over 100 years later embraces their "rich family history" and proudly celebrates their bloodline.
A bloodline that bore a member who would Oppress others from knowing their own bloodline....
And everyone knows that Closed Adoption IS a form of  emotional and psychological slavery (compliments of the United States Government, The Adoption Industry, The ACLU, The NCFA, The Church and The Department of Social Work that still won't set us free)
What stirred me the most about the USA Today article was how much emphasis was put on how the Lehman Bros. dealt in commodities to make their fortune.
Which is fine if we are talking coffee, tea, thread or alcohol....
Hey, good for the Lehman's.
Nothing wrong with earning a good living dealing in those trades.
But one of the brothers, Mayer Lehman, like all the other idiots, mainly Christians, that owned slaves in the South considered African American human beings commodities.....
An owned object.
Owned property...
The same way Herbert H. Lehman would consider new born babies and children commodities a century later....
Slavery is the cruel act of being forced to live without one's personal freedom as we all know.
And there is no greater personal freedom than to be able to know who you are and from whence you came....
And whether Governor Lehman knew of Georgia Tann's crimes when he Adopted a baby from her is not the point.
For if he had a heart at all for any of us, he would of seen that Oppressing innocent people was NOT the way to deal with it.
He would of seen to how much money and power can negatively effects one's maturity level and that there is nothing mature at all about Closed Adoption.....
Not then.
Not now.
Not ever.

(I must interject here and say this. I do however, blame Georgia Tann more than I blame Herbert H. Lehman for the Adoption Records closing in NY due to all the fantastic lies she may have told him to cover her sleazy ass and I didn't even vote for him. I voted for Troy Dunn. I am resentful of Governor Lehman like 15 other people obviously are though, for starting this trend, Closed Adoption, and not putting himself in our shoes before he made such a life altering decision for so many people. I guess I wish he just stuck to donating items to museums like one nice member of his family did. Furthermore, it has been OVER 60 years since Georgia Tann's horrific crimes have been exposed and the American public KNOWS that Closed Adoption not only mimics them but has come about BECAUSE of them. Adoptees and First Parents know too how her abuses have snowballed into an every day bogus mindset peppered by prejudice and out right lies that are the basis to keep Adoption Files sealed even now which is beyond unacceptable).

Senator Ann Rivers loves to Oppress other people as well using The Birth Mother Privacy lie to do it while coercing other Adoptees into a Benedict Bastard state of mind...
What a gal...
Yes, you wear that power well...
Reaching for my Bastard Barf Bucket now.
Does it still amaze you as much as it amazes me that money and power that so many people still think makes one such a winner does nothing but make one a loser as a human being in the end?
Except when they are the winner of The Flying Monkey Award of course...
At least they get to be called Winners at the end of this contest!
So see you next year everyone....
(And your little dog too!)
After another nauseating year of hell (it's a given) from The Adoption Industry who love to rip us all apart with their very own sinister Flying Monkeys.....

Keep Your Baby Pie......

Thank you "Waitress" for being the best movie I have ever seen that exposes some of the lies told by those by who profit from Adoption and all the pain and frustration they have caused us without even being a movie about Adoption in the first place.....
Yeah, I know.
This movie came out 12 years ago but I just saw it last week.
Better late than never to see such a beautiful wake up call bonding scene with a brand new Mother ....
Maybe I should of entitled this post You'll Fall In Love With Your Baby Pie....
or You Won't Be Able To Live Without Your Baby Pie....
IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND PREGNANT AND YOU CONTACT AN ADOPTION AGENCY BEFORE YOU GIVE BIRTH AND THEN DECIDE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR BABY AFTERWARDS, YOU WILL BE SERVED A HUGE HELPING OF WE ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BABY AWAY FROM YOU AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT PIE......
THE BITTER TASTE OF THAT PIE IS VERY SIMILAR TO THE TOXIC RECIPE THE ADOPTION INDUSTRY HAS WHIPPED UP FOR ADOPTEES WHO WANT OUR ADOPTION RECORDS OPENED AND OUR ORIGINAL BIRTH CERTIFICATES GIVEN TO US WITHOUT THE INSULT OF CONDESCENDING MIND GAMES.
It is available on the We Love To Oppress and Abuse People To Make Money Daily Special Menu at Georgia's Pie Shack located in the majority of states in the USA and is appropriately named Just Shut Up And Take It Pie....
So sing along everyone,
And Adoption Agencies lie....
They'll rip you all apart
They'll stab you in the heart
Right in the middle.....

The Duggar's Want To Adopt. I Shit You Not.....

Photo Credit: Kris Connor

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME?!!
Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar really think some poor little child from Asia is going to benefit by being thrown into an already over populated family where I doubt any of the children get enough attention and they have to wear color coded clothes just so their Parents can keep track of them as it is?
Michelle claims she and Jim Bob know so much about Adoption because they have friends who have Adopted. But I bet they don't know a damn thing about how WE feel.
And I feel angry that there is yet another couple that is supporting an unbelievably greedy Industry that still tries to keep us legally Oppressed through Closed Adoption and the lack of laws for Adoptees in Open Adoption to have an ongoing connection with their Biological Families.
All their God this, and God that makes me sick, as so called Christians continue to support a system designed by a freekin PEDOPHILE that they want to claim is God's will.
Well here is a message to the Duggars from an Adoptee.
And to all Christians that want to Adopt and think that they are such experts on the subject...
It is God's will to have you ABOLISH THE ANTI-CHRISTIAN, CLOSED ADOPTION RECORD SYSTEM, FIGHT TO OPEN SEALED FILES IN EVERY STATE WHERE THEY ARE NOT AND FORGIVE ALL WOMEN WHO CONCEIVE OUT OF WEDLOCK AND PUNISH THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN NO MORE.
Instead of Adopting a child from another country, why don't you help the children in your own country by making CLOSED ADOPTION ILLEGAL ONCE AND FOR ALL THE WAY IT SHOULD BE.
And help draft and push bills to create laws to end the abuse due to Open Adoption gone wrong.
Why don't you start focusing on the children you already have to and make sure they are getting all the support and hugs they need.
I don't see how they could with as many little ones as the Duggars have and one more from China is obviously not going to make that situation ANY better.
Here is a Preview Video of The Duggars 19 Kids And Counting In Asia, where Michelle talks about Adopting yet seems rather impatient with one child of her own.
Someone needs some sleep and some alone time, NOT to add yet another charge to her family.....
Just like we need The Adoption Records Opened YESTERDAY...

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AND THEN PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION AT CHANGE.ORG TO TO STOP THIS UNFORGIVABLE ATROCITY RIGHT NOW.
THERE IS NO DEBATING THAT DR. MATTHEW ISRAEL, THE FOUNDER OF THE CENTER,  IS A SOICIOPATHIC MANIAC  AND SHOULD BE SUED, ARRESTED AND SENT TO PRISON FOR THE REST OF HIS WORTHLESS LIFE, ALONG WITH ALL THE OTHER TERRORISTS (YES, TERRORISTS) THAT WORK THERE.
AFTER YOU WATCH THEIR HEARTBREAKING ACTIONS TOWARDS THESE INNOCENT KIDS I AM SURE YOU WILL FEEL THE SAME WAY...


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Kathleen Foley Has No Class........

Despite the fact that I was raised in Closed Adoption, I don't need anyone to tell me I am British.
I just KNOW I am and always have.
When I was in my 20's I was told I looked like an "English model" and I have been obsessed with England since I was 8 years old.
Even to the point, that my idea of fun with a childhood friend was to talk with an English accent around the center of town to see if the adults we spoke to would really believe we were from London....
But hey, we were 10 and 11 years old.
When I was in my 20's I was also raped.
Not the kind of perpetrator climbs through a window and puts a knife to my neck rape. I knew him.
I was hanging around with him.
And I shouldn't of been because quite frankly, he was a mean screwed up asshole.
A mean screwed up asshole who liked to drink and take speed.
The latter of which I wasn't aware of before he assaulted me.
I remember him throwing me on his bed and trying to push him off of me and then trying to wiggle my way out from under him.
I remember being furious and terrified at the same time.
I remember screaming that afternoon when he was biting my breasts and I remember begging him to stop because I couldn't handle the pain.
And I will never forget his arrogant attitude....
And when I finally got away from him an hour later and out of his dark, crappy basement apartment and into my car I drove away from that house like a bat out of hell.
Fifteen minutes later though, I pulled over in a parking lot because I was still shaking.
I wasn't far from home.
But I just wanted to sit there.
I lowered my face onto my hands that were clenching the steering wheel.
I shut my eyes that never shed tears because I was still so much in shock.
My chest was stinging, my chest was burning and then I noticed my chest felt all wet.
When I looked down my pretty black sequined sweater that he pushed up but never ripped off, my chest was also entirely covered with blood.
I have never told to many people about this.
I never went to the police either because I was not feeling good about myself at that time or very strong and I did not want an Attorney in my face badgering me that I "wanted it".
Because that is exactly what the mean screwed up asshole said to me when I was begging him to stop biting me. 
Looking back now though, I wish I had gone to the nearest Emergency Room.
20 years later however, one night, just for the hell of it, I Googled my rapist's name and was led to a website where I found out he had been in jail for 3 years.
The charge did not surprise me.
Assault and battery.
Oh HOW HIM.
Of course he wasn't in prison for raping me, yet in my wounded psyche, and in my wounded heart, I told myself at least he had paid for it.
Somewhat.
I told myself part of his sentence was for how he violated  me.....
And I have left it at that, despite the fact that I will hate this man and still wish I had him arrested for all eternity....
Those feelings were particularly intense one rainy day when I was watching a movie on Lifetime tv called "Speak".
An incredible film about a high school girl that gets raped the night of a party she was so excited to go to at the end of her 9th grade year.
I felt her wounds the entire two hours and I could relate to how a violent and infuriating significant event in her life changed her so much.
She had been an outgoing girl, Melinda, but when she went back to school as a 10th grader, she became isolated and withdrawn, wanting no social life whatsoever.
She would not talk to anyone.
She could not talk to anyone.
And she told no one about what happened to her those four months before.
For the entire school year, until she met with this monster again and let her justified rage out on him....
By fighting back.
And then finally, in the safety of her Mother's arms, she could speak once again.
And began to speak.
About being raped....
I really don't want to make this post a long one.
On Monday morning, when I began to read Daily Mail that I subscribe to to get my fill of British gossip I, like millions of other people saw the article about Kathleen Hoy Foley's despicable latest stunt towards her wonderful daughter Elaine Penn.
Who I do not know personally but on whose blog I've made a comment or two over the years as I've always liked her posts and because her story broke my heart.
Mail led me to the NY Daily News article about this horrid woman which led to my Twinning's becoming cold and my lemon cranberry scones ignored.
I could not eat or drink anything because both articles made my stomach hurt.
After a couple of sighs, and a few eye rolls, I braced myself to read the comments.
Much to my surprise however, many of the comments stated that Foley was not raped at all, and that Elaine's Father wanted to marry her, and raise Elaine, and one  particular person, who I have not heard of before, Priscilla Sharp, stated facts about this story that can not be ignored.
That Kathleen wanted to keep Elaine but her Parents forced her to give her baby away, and they slammed the front door in Elaine's Father's face because he wanted to do the right thing.
I know full well, that any man who rapes a woman wants nothing to do with any poor child conceived from that act.
I mean talk about DNA evidence....
And I also know that there is no way in hell, an organization as corrupt and abusive as Catholic Charities would EVER give any information to an Adoptee about his or her own life.
Kathleen Hoy Foley's accusation stating they did is not only an outright lie, it is an EMBARRASSMENT and that is exactly how she should feel for spewing it.
But the most important thing I know, is that it is not any child's fault how they end up coming into this world.
And be it rape or no rape, no child should EVER be blamed, despised or scapegoated because they came to be.
I never got pregnant after the mean screwed up asshole forced himself on me.
But I can imagine how I would of felt if I had.
And I do know IF I had, I never would of felt it was the baby's fault.
If anything, I would of felt so sad, that any human being would of been created out of so much hate.
Hate the mean screwed up asshole had towards me.....
For no good reason at all....
I also know as well that NO ONE CAN STALK THEIR OWN MOTHER.
That word does NOT and will NEVER logically apply to this union.
Even in a case of rape.
For the child IS A VICTIM TOO.
And any Mother who fails to see this and instead whores the victim status, the way Kathleen Hoy Foley has, acting in the immature, prima donna, self-centered and attention hogging way that she is, does not deserve any sympathy whatsoever.
And I have absolutely none for her.
Because it is her attitude, one that completely lacks any grace or maturity whatsoever, that Kathleeen Foley has towards her daughter that has hurt her, not Elaine in any way.
Elaine  Penn has done nothing.
Elaine did NOT rape her. (If she was really raped at all).
And Elaine deserves as much respect as a human being with feelings as Foley obviously wants for herself by running with her poor me agenda which  looks more like she is a paid off advertising campaign for Closed Adoption then a victim of violent crime.
Which is another reason why Foley still continues to make my stomach hurt.
Because of how she has perverted her need for silence, which she has then morphed into a duct tape bomb she is now trying to throw at the Open Records Movement.
It completely blows my mind that this maniac thinks she even has the right to say she wants Adoption Records to stay closed for ALL Adoptees.
Why, because she says she was raped?
Well, I didn't rape her.
And neither did any other Adoptee.
Yet every Adoptee on earth should be denied their heritage because she did not want to meet her daughter who she claims was conceived from that rape?...
Yes, that is SO logical.
Nauseatingly narcissistic too.....
Why don't we make an equally oppressive law as well, that no man
can EVER date a woman because he may rape her.
Hell, let's just make one that states that no man can ever have
sex again, because Kathleen Hoy Foley claims she
was raped.....

Despite the fact that she  went on to have relations and give birth to two daughters who she raised, in the mist of being so traumatized, as her two books, her interviews and her websites indicate.
Which in my opinion counteracts all her well planned out hysteria.
PEOPLE WHO BLAME OTHERS FOR WHAT THEY ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HAVE NO CLASS AT ALL.
This can never be said enough.
They do however have a serious psychological problem that needs to be fixed, so they do not hurt someone else.
And I just wish this whacky woman would be legally barred from speaking in social media until some way IS found to help her.
In all these years, I have yet to name the mean screwed up asshole who raped me on any social media.
I could type his name out right now if I wanted to.
I could put up 10 blogs about him, go on every website on the internet and talk about him, call 15 news stations or write 45 comments on the Daily Mail...
but I choose not to.
Because quite frankly, I don't want to go there.
Because it still hurts to much to talk about it.
And I don't want the drama either.
And like Melinda in "Speak", I understand the stillness that overcomes one after a storm cloud has darkened life.
I also know too, that there are many mean people on the internet, and when one does talk about an abuse that has been thrust on them, they are abused even further by letting it all out.
By those who want to hide the evil they have done.
And who never ever wanted their victim to speak out in the first place......

Castles In The Sand or You Are Such A Liar Troy Dunn....

From Troy Dunn's Facebook Page......

Troy the Locator (Official)
February 12, 2013

"Yikes, spread the word to those in search! There is a sudden rash of people in search who are posting pics of themselves holding posters filled with their personal information, in hopes someone may help them! I STRONGLY urge you to NOT do this! While it may help a few, it will result in being victimized by far too many others. Identity thieves are LOVING this trend as it makes their job so much easier- full name, date of birth, place of birth, mothers name, holy smokes people- STOP! And this is not even including the evil people who will use that info to then pose as the person being sought- then using that fake relationship to extort $, (for "travel") etc. I am not being paranoid, I see this happen A LOT!! Please urge people to not fall into this trend of circulating a photo with their personal search information on it- VERY DANGEROUS!!
Share and warn others please".

Yeah...I'll spread the word about what a conniver, manipulator and deceiver you and the rest of the Mormons REALLY are.....
How many times do we HAVE to say it?
CLOSED ADOPTION IS THE ORIGINAL FORM OF " IDENTITY THEFT".......
So shut the hell up Troy.
Or better yet, why don't you apologize for how you treated Dusten Brown who just wanted to keep the pieces of his family together before they were ripped apart....
Only a fool denies that prevention is the best cure....
And that actions speak louder than words.
And your actions on the stupid Dr. Phil show a few months ago spoke volumes Mister....
Why don't you also tell the truth that Adoption is a BUSINESS, not a charity like society and The Adoption Industry want to make it seem like it is.
A lucrative BUSINESS that the Mormons have MADE BILLIONS OFF OF.........
A BUSINESS that has caused millions of people intolerable pain while those who profit from it just sit there still and laugh.
A BUSINESS that Mormon Bishops like Troy Dunn and Mitt Romney try day in and day out to keep alive and well by forcing single pregnant females, Mormon or not, to give their babies up for Adoption.
Closed Adoption....
And Open Adoption that they know damn well will most likely end up Closed after the Adoptive Parents cut off contact and move to another state or a another country, because there no laws to protect them and their children from being separated by legally barring conscienceless Adoptive Parents from  doing this.
A plan some maniacal Adoptive Parents drafted from the minute they realized they couldn't conceive...
Ah, getting revenge for their disability on innocent people who are not responsible for it is sweet, isn't it?
Lie to the "birthmother" to get the kid and split...
(And it goes without saying, that the Mormons and their money will fight every bill drafted that would give Natural Mothers and Adoptees any control over this nightmare to).
A BUSINESS that keeps stomping on our heads every time we try to climb out of the grave of sand they have buried us alive in when we try to escape the oppressive bindings of our $ealed File tomb ....
A BUSINESS that is beyond insensitive and is full of people that want to keep their heads in the sand about how immoral it really is...
And how uncompassionate those who work within it really ARE.

I have already written a post about the recent trickery the Mormons have executed against Natural Fathers by trying to pay off the Mothers of their offspring to purposely keep them out of their lives until their babies are successfully given up for Adoption, and this underhanded scheme, as we all know, isn't the beginning or the end of the continuous Un-Christian behavior these buffoons love to take part in.
I would however, like to breakdown in this post, every two faced, double standard, hypocritical word Dunn has spewed in his recent rant.
And I'm going to right now....
Let's not start at the very beginning though.
(Which is quite fitting because we all know that Mormons get off on ignoring the beginning of every Adoptee's life while they create Genealogy sites and businesses and are obsessed with their own Family Tree...)

Let's start with the last sentence he writes....

"Please urge people to not fall into this trend of circulating a photo with their personal search information on it- VERY DANGEROUS!!
Share and warn others please".

The mass hysteria he is trying to create serves many purposes.
For HIMSELF.
He:
a) is terrified that people who appear on the internet with posters displaying their faces and what birth facts they have about themselves will find their Natural Families and all the sinister control the Adoption Industry (and some Adoptive Parents) live for will be taken away from them.
Oh No!
Boo Hoo!!....
b) Mr. Worships Money won't make a ton of it charging the OUTRAGEOUS fees that he charges to search and won't be able to run the show his customers call their lives..
I'm not the only one who thinks that.

This guy does to.....

Daniel Lasris
"The real reason he doesn't want anyone posting on Facebook is because he doesn't make any money off the ones that find their family through a FREE social network!"
February 22 at 6:15pm..

I have to agree Daniel!

c) knows damn well if more Adoptees and other people looking for someone can find who they have lost in this way, then that means less media exposure for Troy Dunn and his fame may begin to be washed away like a castle in the sand......
now we CAN'T have that.
An unprideful Christian in a leather jacket?!!
You jest!
Oh No!!!
Boo Hoo!!....
And finally d)......
This Self-Appointed Saint is really a wolf in sheep's clothing as speaking out against Adoptees finding their Natural Families in this affordable manner, is his way of vieing for all the Adoptive Parents in Great Britain (and now in America) who had a complete and total immature spaz because the kids they Adopted were finding their Natural Parents on MySpace and Facebook, even some who were unjustly taken from their Parents by the unforgivably corrupt CARE and Department of Social Work.

And now who are finding blood relatives through YouTube.

Adoptive Parents who now want laws made to stop social media from letting these children and teens end the psychological torture that has been inflicted on them while taking away once more the freedoms they deserve to have....

if you love "something" set them free...

Yup, that's right bloodline sucking vampires....
Pack the sand even harder....
(Oh No! The World Wide Web is letting us flee from the meanness The Adoption Industry and some child abusing
Adoptive Parents love to treat us with!!!)

BOO HOO!!!!!!



(And yeah, that's right. ALL Adoptive Parents who believe in Closed Adoption should still exist and fight to keep our records sealed are child abusers. So is anyone else who believes and does the same. End. of. story.
Take it from an Adoptee. NON-debatable).......



So now that we have seen that 27 words can be so easily twisted into an agenda and reflect what a self-serving bonehead Troy Dunn really is, let's look at how he has twisted even more of them!

"And this is not even including the evil people who will use that info to then pose as the person being sought"

Two little words Mister, that are a BIG deal.
Two little words that scare the hell out of the Adoption Industry.
DNA test.....
It never ceases to amaze me, just how STUPID the Adoption Industry  and their cronies have always thought we are.
And wants us to be.
Like some gullible 3 year old conned into believing in Santa Claus.
Although Troy does have a point.....
Yes, there ARE plenty of Social Workers, Adoption Agency owners and employees and even some Adoptive Parents that go online all the time and pretend they are Adoptees who do not want the Records opened or who call "birthmothers" crack head ho' s whilst they sing the praises of  excluding us from The Constitution and our "annihilable rights".
I was lied to continuously by the Agency that Adopted me out when I first contacted them in the 80's. After I gave them money to, and about non-identifying information WHICH WAS ILLEGAL for them to keep from me...
They also tried to con me that Adoptees were case workers there...
Yes, the Adoption Industry loves to mock, create bogus scripts and subvert the hell out of us...
All in a day's work...
There are also Adoption Agencies that send to Adoptees, actresses or people employed within the system who pretend they are our Natural Mothers when they are not...
Women who then end the relationship or treat us like dirt so we do....
(Hmmm...another post, another time, yet feel free to ponder people...).
Of course now that there are such extensive DNA tests available, I am sure that Closed Adoption loving Agencies can no longer pull this scam that has been going on for decades.
Oh No!
Boo Hoo!....
Seriously, a message to ALL Adoptees and Natural Parents out there.
Get a DNA test first before you forge forward with a relationship you have been told is blood.....

And last but not least, this little ditty..

"to extort $"

Interesting how you choose that particular word there Troy...

extort

Definition

ex·tort

TRANSITIVE VERB 

1. 

obtain something by force or coercion: to obtain something such as money or information from somebody by using force, threats, or other unacceptable methods.

Did someone say COERCION?...

Yes, the Adoption Industry has used coercion from the beginning through demons called Social Workers, including Mormon Adoption Agencies to force women to give their newborns to people they do not know, and then force we Adoptees to live in the dark about who we are, while the NCFA, a collaboration of all Mormon Adoption Agencies, along with the ACLU and the Knights of Columbus blackmail, payoff, and threaten Legislators to NOT pass Open Adoption Record bills through Congress....
Most fall victim to these evil tactics...
Although a few don't..
And they will speak to you at the very end of this entry..

Yes....

extort means to obtain something in an unscrupulous way.

The only problem is when one uses this word to describe the Adoption Industry, that "something" is a HUMAN BEING.....
With a heart, a soul and a mind.
And feelings like everybody else.

Who has rights by Nature to know what bloodline they belong to and from whence they came.

A right Troy Dunn doesn't really want any of us to have, especially if he can't get rich off of giving that right back to us....

After his people were part of taking it away to begin with.....

LOOK AT THE ADOPTEES GET THEIR OBC'S......
OH NO!!!!!!
     BOO HOO!!!!! 

Forgotten Faces....

They want us to forget that Adoption is about US.
But we won't.
We can't.
And we don't.....
But why should we?
That is like asking us to forget about ourselves.
And walk this earth invisible.
Would THEY?.......

Are Russia's Orphans REALLY Orphans?

 

Until 1994, Social Work and Social Workers were unheard of in Russia. I find that ironic of course, and quite insightful at the same time, because it was due to Communist Regine that they were not a part of Russia's culture.
They were not needed because the Russian Government was already involved in a complete Oppressive Regiment.
One very similar to The Department of Social Work in the United States
and Finland and CARE in Great Britain today.

Charles Nelson Crittenton

A system that has been totally OUT OF CONTROL, since social workers started acting like Superman on Kryptonite and began to hurl boulders at The Florence Crittenton Homes, no longer allowing Unwed Mothers to live at these safe houses where they could keep their babies and raise them until they got on their feet financially. The sole intention of the founders of these wonderful places of refuge in 1883, the incredible Charles Nelson Crittenton and the remarkable wife of an Episcopalian minister, Kate Waller Barrett.
A true pioneer of women's rights and morality in my opinion.

Yet, by the 1940's this compassionate and truly Christian system would be overtaken by heartless hags who wanted to rip Mother and child apart, the end result of the forewarning of what was yet to come, thanks to the disgusting, conscienceless criminal Georgia Tann who enacted the same vile behavior 20 years before and would continue to do so for ten years hence until she finally did do one good deed and dropped the hell dead.....
It does not surprise me that this ongoing abusive mindset from the Department Of Social Work and The Adoption Industry was conceived in America however.
A country founded by stealing the land that belonged to and was cultivated with the back breaking sweat of people that were here first for thousands of years.
A country that then turned around and stole the freedom later of foreigners who never wanted to come here in the first place.
The Christian Dutch, wanting to flee poverty in Holland set sights on Amerika as well, not caring how fortunes were to be attained either when the first forms of trafficking human beings for profit began in the New World.
For Amerika it seems, was to be a playground to make money any which it could be made, throwing morals out the window in the process while chasing mindlessly after a $ sign like greyhounds racing towards a bone pulling them to the finish line...
And now in the modern day, from the United States to England, Scotland, Ireland and down to Australia, engaging in the heinous practice of punishing Parents by stealing their children for not attaining that $ sign and by way of  calling them "unfit" because their children are overweight, got a mild sunburn, share a bedroom with a sibling or are single is considered nothing more than an fruitful  business, happily supported by Governments and Churches, courtesy of Capitalism, Amerika's first born system designed from outright greed.
A system that has spread like wildfire across the earth due to making big profits Adopting out these children taken so needlessly.
A system as bad as Socialism in it's own way.
For considering the history of the human race and how horrible people have been since life in this realm began, NO PERSON in the world deserves the luxury of free reign when it comes to making money.
Or controlling other people.
And that includes the Department of Social Work and the Adoption Industry big time....
But alas, we live in a world of lies.
And denial.
And confusion as well.
Confusion that many want to take advantage of.
What I do find surprising however, is the fact that so many Americans do not understand what is really going on in Russia.....
I suppose I cannot blame the majority of citizens in this country however, because they are being manipulated when it comes to the information that is available to them, or the LACK of it I should say.
Adoption Agencies, Social Workers, some PAP's and Adoptive Parents do not reveal the truth of the "dire" situation in Russia concerning "Orphans".
Hell, they don't even explain THAT THE "ORPHANS" ARE NOT EVEN  REALLY "ORPHANS" THE WAY WE USE THAT WORD HERE.
For the 95 % of children NOT living with their parents in Russia have not lost them to death....
They have lost them DUE TO SOCIAL WORKERS.....
When my dentist retired last year he sold his practice to another doctor, born and raised in Russia. She has been in this country for  almost 20 years, studied here, got licensed here and has no plans to return to Moscow anytime soon.
She still stays in touch with family there however...
So at my last appointment, in between "open please" and "bite down", I asked her what she thought of  President Putin's recent decision to not let Americans Adopt Russian children any longer.
This was after I had found out about the above statistic I just quoted of course...
She didn't say much about it.
Then I told her what I had found out.
Which led to even more questions.
And answers I had suspected....
It has only been in the last ten years or so that so many children have been overflowing in the  "Orphanages" in Russia.
Which directly coincides with the intensity of how completely and totally irrational the buffoons who vie for "the best interest of the child" have become, worldwide.
Even though as I said before, they have been nothing less than predators since the 1940's and have just gotten worse and worse and worse ever since...
Then after a much needed but annoying X-ray, I also told her that I did not believe the majority of Russian Parents were drunks, drug addicts, beat their children senseless or abandoned them.
"Of course" she said, but many were "poor"....
Flashback to the 1920 to 1950 Georgia Tann era in Tennessee and let's discuss again how the current mindset of Social Workers unethically removing children from innocent parents and the Closed  Adoption System started in the United States.

A sick, Orwellian mindset that Social Workers fully embrace, by pushing to instate laws that mimicked the excuses that demon along with her creepy sidekick Camille Kelley used to make money off of women who needed and deserved monetary DONATIONS, NOT having their children STOLEN FROM THEM.
The TRUE way of Charity.....
GIVING TO THOSE IN NEED NOT TAKING FROM THEM.....
And how that system is still in place RIGHT NOW, every damn day, 24/7.....
The rich punishing the poor, the "experts" punishing the poor, the Christians punishing the poor for being poor in the first place...
When I was growing up the expression was "consider the source" or "ulterior motive".
Nowadays it is "agenda".

But no  matter what one calls it, one will never get the correct information from anyone who is bias.
Or like Georgia Tann, who needed to make excuses.
The majority of information most people get about the situation for the "Orphans" of Russia come from those who would benefit from what is told to the public about their situation.
People who want to be rich..
People who want to parent because they cannot on their own...
People who think they are better than other people when they're not...
I am not saying however that there aren't some bad Parents in Russia despite all this.
Or Parents that aren't dysfunctional alcoholics.
Or that can't afford to pay for the medical care for their child's disability.
But I AM saying that the outrageous amount of children that are in "Orphanages" in Russia NEVER needed to be there in the first place.
Native Americans were once given blankets here laden with the disease smallpox by unscrupulous Amerikan fiends and today's unscrupulous Amerikan fiends have spread the disease of Social Work to Britain and finally to Russia which is no less of a dirty trick...
President Putin as we all know has plans to clean up the mess that this country has started there and I am hoping purging the profession of Social Work from his country will be the first step.
The money spent on the salaries of these treacherous idiots, who want nothing more than to create chaos in other people's lives, would be much better spent given to poor Parents to help their children so they do not have to be separated from them when they never should of been in the first place.
One reason I feel that so many Russian Adoptees have exhibited so much emotional upset when they arrive here.
They miss the loving arms of their Mothers and Fathers and the security of their Homeland.
A fact covered up by money grubbing Adoption "Professionals", insane "Attachment Therapists" and even the Big Pharma who would rather make money from putting these poor kids on poison for ADD and dangerous Anti-Psychotic drugs, then have the overwhelming grief they feel respected.
And ditto for The Adoptive Parents who have brought them here and
inflicted these tortures upon them.

Max/Makum Kuzima

Like Laura and Alan Shatto who have murdered their Adopted son Max, (throwing more fuel on the firestorm already burning in Russia's heart as they trusted the United States to truly love and care for  their children).
There has to be a better solution for children like Maksim Kuzmina and his Mother Yulia Kuzmina  who openly admits she has a drinking problem.
But America isn't it.....
Not when America thinks destroying youth with quacks called Psychiatrists, bigotry and manure called "medications"
is the the way for a better life.
For doing so only makes America a Hypocrite.
Which this country has been in many ways since the second generation of Pilgrims began to control others in ways they traveled for months to escape from themselves....
I believe Max's brother Kirill should be sent back to Russia, have regular visits with his Mother while Guardianship of him is entrusted to another family member who does not have a problem with alcohol or a close family friend.
Which is exactly what should of been done for his poor brother to begin with......
And I would not be surprised if President Putin will figure that out without any help from The United States who obviously cannot see the forest for the trees...
Or it's own damn Hypocrisy...
That lies in the deep, dark, black holes of Capitalism whose lack of protective laws mimic the Oppression of Communism for one to many...
A hellish system Russia now wants to live without but America has always loved to inflict on who they deem profitable commodities...
Even if it kills them....

Yulia Kuzima

Photo Credits:
Kate Waller Barrett: The Library of Virginia

Thank You President Putin.....

For finally giving American Adoption Agencies and Adoptive Parents that vie for Closed Adoption Records and who have broken Open Adoption Agreements a taste of their own vile medicine...
Thank you for showing them what Oppression REALLY FEELS LIKE and what it feels like to be bossed around by a Government the way they have used our Government to boss us around to the point where many Adoptees have committed suicide because of it....
as Closed Adoption Records were NEVER in our best interest and
have hurt many Adoptees beyond repair.....
(I have never heard of an Infertile Woman taking her life because she could not conceive or an Adoption Agency owner doing the same because not as much money was made as he or she wanted  either..
hmmm, that speaks VOLUMES doesn't it? To bad American society is still to dense to listen...)
Thank you for recognizing that your precious children Adopted by horrific Americans who abused them, let them DIE and SENT THEM BACK never deserved to have to suffer the immature, greedy and self-centered fools who swore they would take care of them.

I will also think it sad forever, that Torry Hansen was never investigated by American Authorities for abusing poor Artem and this is why he had tantrums in the first place....

And thank you most of all for promising to make major improvements concerning the orphaned children in Russia and sparing them the trauma of United States snobbery which has essentially insulted your young citizens by screaming loud and clear that being Russian just isn't good enough...
Which of course isn't true.....
I hope to that you will please accept my apology as an American, that NOT ONE AMERICAN ADOPTION AGENCY OR WEALTHY ADOPTION ORGANIZATION LIKE THE NFCA WILL EVER GIVE YOUR COUNTRY ONE SINGLE DIME TO BENEFIT YOUR HOMELESS ORPHANS. FOR THESE SELFISH DEGENERATES ONLY CARE ABOUT MAKING MONEY FOR THEMSELVES NOT USING IT TO REALLY HELP CHILDREN ANYWHERE....
Due to the fact that the American Adoption System was started by a loser pedophile and most Adoption Agencies had laws made that mimicked  the crimes Georgia Tann committed, I hope as well that other countries will follow Russia's lead in this new coming year and instate laws that ban Americans from Adopting their children to.....
Since they BAN us from our basic human rights and dignity every day.
Which they NEVER deserved to make a dime off of.
And which they still ignore.....
for as usual their behavior, since Russia announced it's plans, shows that they only care about themselves as their mantra on the White House Petition site is as always, me, me, me, me, me.....
us, us, us, us, us.......
So tonight I will go to sleep smiling because  the Adoption Industry will finally get some well deserved karma tomorrow.....
And wonder when I wake up
Who said 13 was an unlucky number?..........

Friends Don't Let Friends Take Psychiatric Drugs...Adopted Or Not.

Adoptees are not the only children or teenagers to suffer Psychiatric Quackery.
We all remember poor little Rebecca Riley and what her monster of a Natural Mother did to her. No one in their right mind would EVER label a two year old with Bipolar, yet Carolyn Riley and her well paid Shrink from hell did just that.
Killing this adorable, helpless little girl before she could even stand up for herself or live her life.
Just like Candace Newmaker.
And sadly this outrageous diagnosis is being slapped on innocent kids more and more, Adopted or not.
(Although Adoptees are really getting the brunt of this as we are the more vulnerable group).
Peace on earth will only come one person at a time people
And one Parent....
Please give the gift of this You Tube video at Christmas.
The life it saves may be your child's or a child you love.
Or even your own...
Gandi once said be the change you want to see in the world.
I can't think of a better New Year's Resolution either....
Can you?

PLEASE HELP THE FRIENDS OF PINE RIDGE RESERVATION THIS CHRISTMAS

And it is very easy to do this. Please visit this website (The Friends of Pine Ridge Reservation) and donate a needed basically inexpensive item through Amazon that will be delivered directly to the Reservation. Gloves, socks and other  basics are being highlighted by this Organization daily, although the Lakotas always need school supplies for their children as well. If you don't feel comfortable typing your credit card number in your computer or the one at work, then do what I always do. Buy an Amazon gift card and use that as payment. Simply type in the code on the back of the card when you are signed into your account with them, which is the safest way to purchase anything through Amazon and other companies on the internet imo. Amazon gift cards are found everywhere, from grocery stores to CVS to convenience stores nationwide. For centuries, these beautiful people have been suffering at the hands of the American Government, in ways similar to how they have oppressed we Adoptees and forced to relinquish Biological Mothers. One of the best ways to fight the tyranny we have all suffered is to help each other in any way we can  to begin to climb up from the bottom of the barrel we have been thrown down into.
And while you are in the Amazon website pick up a copy of one of my favorite movies for yourself  or a friend,  "Pow Wow Highway" winner of  The Sundance Film Festival Awards, that was filmed in part on the Pine Ridge Reservation and shows the dire and unfair living conditions the Lakotas have been forced to endure for decades.

This film stars hunky A. Martinez who is absolutely incredible as Buddy Redbow and Gary Farmer who is beyond adorable and who I am a big fan of.  Best 12 bucks you will spend on entertainment this year..... My thanks in advance to all who visit Amazon for the Lakota tribe and do charity RIGHT unlike the abusive Adoption Industry...

I would also like to add to, that if you cannot donate an item to the Lakotas through Amazon by Christmas as we all know it is the most financially strapping time of year, PLEASE consider using some of your Christmas gift money to help them out soon afterwards. The winters in South Dakota are long and harsh and gifts will be appreciated just as much after the holidays or up until the spring.

Beautiful Child......

When will adults begin to listen to children?...
When will the Adoption Industry begin to listen to us?...
When will Attachment Therapy become illegal?....
When will people care more about a human life than money?....
When will the Government see that Closed Adoption is child abuse?
When will the Government see that brainwashing is NOT therapeutic to kids?...
When will America finally grow the hell up?...
Candace can never grow up now....
Even though she is supposed to be an adult today.
A precious young woman of 22...
Please light a candle for her ....
And never forget how she was betrayed...
I never will...
Or how she was MURDERED...
Like so many Adoptees are...
I never will...
Even if we didn't share the same birthday...
No...
No...I don't want to be wrapped up in this blanket from hell...
No I won't beleive a stranger off the street gave birth to me
(when I've already lived with the woman who did...)
No, I can NOT breathe...
Just say NO to Closed Adoption people...
And abusive "therapies" for Adoptees...
Designed for the sake of immature women who can't handle reality...
So there will never be another rose on the grave
Of a beautiful child....
Who NEVER should of died...

                                                              Candace Newmaker           
                                                    November 19 1989-April 18 2000

National Abused Adoptee Month......

And so another Adoptee goes through sheer hell...
And what do I think should happen to the couple that Adopted him the article asks?
I'll get to that....
And please feel free to let me know through a comment what you think should happen to them...
(Evil grin...)
The Adoption Industry, to make even more billions, dubs November as National Adoption Awareness Month, but since they purposely try to downplay just how many abusive PAP's they actually Adopt out to, I therefore am officially declaring that November be dubbed National Abused Adoptee Month to make the public aware that Adoption Agencies do NOT care about Adoptees and they never have. Especially the Agencies that vie for Closed Adoption Records which is the first act of abuse they inflict on us.
Next of course are the outright lies that form the stereotypes which dictate how we dirty little bastards should be looked at, and treated, as we are of course insane which we inherited from our deviant Mothers who are psychotic because you know, they had sex before marriage....
I mean everyone KNOWS that fornication is a symptom of mental illness..
Right?!!!!
Yup, I remember Jesus being quoted as saying that when I used to read the New Testament....
and yup, I am furious again, hence this post.....
And the others that will follow....
During National Abused Adoptee Month..
Including one for our Candace....
I want them in prison for the rest of their lives.
In solitary confinement.
So they can slowly start to go completely mad.
Like they slowly tried to starve to death this innocent and helpless little boy.
The Hauers.
And so they can never get revenge on this poor child because "he won".
And had "gotten his way" because he almost died....
And this EVIL BITCH had to take him to the hospital
The unfortunate woman!
Imagine that.
My my, what an "ungrateful" Adoptee........
Hmm?...

North Mankato, MN
"Authorities have arrested a couple after it was determined their adopted son had been purposely starved, according to the Pioneer Press.

Mona Hauer and Russell Hauer have been slapped with six felonies for starving their adopted child. The 8-year-old was reportedly so malnourished that his stomach was distended and his bones protruded from his skin. For their crimes, the couple will be charged with neglect and malicious punishment of a child.

Unfortunately, the family’s cruelty didn’t end with starvation. The Hauers allegedly beat the boy with a broom handle, made him sleep in the basement, and forced him to use the bathroom in a bucket. The child’s brothers and sisters — including his own biological siblings — would bathe him with a garden hose two or three times a week.

The Examiner reports that the boy was kept on a strict liquid diet. While the other family memebers ate dinner, the child was forced to watch them consume a variety of solid food. At one point, the boy became so hungry that he was spied eating from a compost pile.
The adopted child’s condition was discovered after he was taken to a local hospital after he vomited blood. In addition to being in the third percentile in both size and development, the boy was suffering from a slow heartbeat, anemia, and brain atrophy.

Mona and Russell Hauer reportedly kept an alarm on her adopted son’s bedroom door to prevent the boy from sneaking out and stealing food. The child told authorities that he often regurgitated his food “because he wanted the taste of food and he did not know when he would eat again.”

Sadly it would appear that the parents feel little remorse for allowing the 8-year-old boy to suffer for so long. Russell Hauer explained that the boy’s eating habits were his way of controlling the family. By being taken the hospital and receiving treatment, the adopted child had essentially “gotten his way.”
The boy was still receiving treatment for malnourishment on Monday. What do you think should happen to the couple who starved their adopted son?"