WE MUST NEVER FORGET. Candace Newmaker.....

Today is Candace Newmaker's birthday. She would of turned 20.
But Adoption murdered her. Adoption has murdered me in many ways too.......
And her Adoptive Mother's weapon of choice?
Attachment Therapy.
And Candace's killer?
Satan's little helper walks free as I type this.........




Look at her face. You can see the evil emanating from it as her laughter continues to haunt all of us. Adoptees and Real Mothers alike......

Today is my birthday. Or that is what I have been told. Considering the fact that CHS lied to me for 25 years about not knowing the time of day I was born, which was illegal, why should I believe them about what day I was born.....especially since
this Christian Adoption Agency vies for Closed Records and the employees there lie about themselves and say they are Adopted when they are not. A game they first started playing with me in the early 80's long before they took it to the internet.
(Like an Adoption Agency would hire an Adoptee and let them ten feet near any other Adoptee's sealed files, teach them how to search for another Adoptee's "birthmothers" current whereabouts, or let them see OBC's with "Illegitimate" or "bastard" stamped across them. Yeah RIGHT........)

It is a well known fact that Christian Clergy, Adoption Agencies, and many a power abusing, immature AP changed the real birthdate of an Adopted infant to a fake date which appears on the Adoptees AMC (Amended Birth Certificate). This was done for differant reasons to serve well all those involved in the child's Adoption EXCEPT the child of course, even though all the true facts that were altered are a very needed form of secutiy and stability for the child's sense of self and identity in every stage of the child's life. Lying outright to some Adoptees about when they came into this world aids the Church's need to punish we dirty little bastards for the rest of our lives. You know since priests, ministers, cardinals, bishops and nuns find Christ's order to forgive each others sins and do nothing at all to punish them so repugnant and all.............this trickery and deception also aids the Adoption Agencies to be able to give their Infertile clients more bang for their buck by letting them buy having the power of god since they can't buy making god let them conceive their own child. So THEY decide when the baby they are going to Adopt was born..........what month, what day, what year which doesn't even let the Adoptee have the the control to know how old they really are! which NO person has any right to do to another person. And it goes without saying, that this isn't even an act of decent parenting either. It is an act of OWNERSHIP. And there is a hell of a big differance between the rightful authority Real Parents exhibit with their children and the ownership mentality some Adoptive Parents execute. Telling a child they Adopt that they are a Gemini when they are really a Scorpio also helps to keep Real Mother and child separate forever as they cannot find each other when they start searching..........the true self-serving motive for why Adoptive Mothers lobbied Congressmen in 1951 to get Adoption Records sealed in the first place......

As a psychic, I know that Candace Newmaker is not at peace. She has not passed to a better place and her spirit bitterly lingers in the realm that keeps her on this earth. She is angry. She is mad at god too. And I don't blame her. Alot of Adoptees raised in Closed Adoption don't feel god is love either, thanks to Pro-Closed Record Christians and the condescending act of we HUMAN BEINGS given as "gifts" to total strangers. And of course how the Church and many AP's try to make us hate ourselves.....(feel shame, whip! whip! feel shame, whip! whip!) We know damn well that sealed files have nothing to do with any form of love......Hate, control, mockery and discrimination, yeah. But love? Pfft..........

Candace didn't feel too loved wrapped up in that heavy itchy blue blanket either. Fighting for her life, her identity and her sanity, as a psychotic Infertile and psychologist forced their money grubbing, ego fulfilling agenda on her, along with their obese asses, the last sounds little Candace ever heard were Jeanne and Ponder yelling at her and Watkins cutting her down along with the gurgling in her lungs from choking on her own vomit because those three losers wouldn't let her out. They wouldn't listen to HER FEELINGS. They wouldn't take HER seriously. They wouldn't let her be released from the drone status THEY wanted her to brainwash herself into SO SHE WOULD BELEIVE SHE WAS BORN AGAIN LITERALLY TO JEANNE NEWMAKER, HER INFERTILE ADOPTIVE MOTHER. Attachment Therapy reveals the true sinister arrogance so many AP's carry within their resentful hearts. And how deeply they care only about themselves and not the innocent infants and children they Adopt. Backed by powerful child abusing industries(Adoption Agencies, Departments of Social Work and the Church) and a paid off government, they have gotten away with immoral and insepid acts that social workers would call negligence and attorneys would call personal injury if the same behaviour was shown by natural parents to their offspring. And thanks to Attachment Therapy they have gotten away with murder too......and this we must NEVER forget......

CANDACE: Whoever is pushing on my head it’s not helping. I can’t do it. I can’t do it. I can’t breathe. It’s too dark under here. Please quit pushing on my head. I can’t do it. Somebody’s sitting on top of me.

CANDACE: I can’t do it. [Screams] I’m gonna die…

PONDER: Do you want to die?

CANDACE: No, but I’m about to…

WATKINS: Go ahead and die.

CANDACE: Please, please I can’t breathe.

CANDACE: Please quit pushing on me.

CANDACE: I need some help. Help! Help me please…

CANDACE: Can you let me have some oxygen? You mean, like you want me to die for real?

PONDER: Uh huh.

CANDACE: Die right now and go to heaven?

PONDER: Go ahead and die right now. For real. For real…

WATKINS: Just go ahead and die. It’s easier…

CANDACE: You said you would give me oxygen.

WATKINS: You gotta fight for it.

CANDACE: [vomits] OK, I’m throwing up. I just threw up. [Vomiting] I gotta poop. I gotta poop.

CANDACE: Uh, I’m going in my pants.

PONDER: Go ahead.

WATKINS: Stay in there with the poop and vomit.

CANDACE: Help! I can’t breathe. I can’t breathe. It’s hot. I can’t breathe…

WATKINS: Getting pretty tight in here.

PONDER: Yep… less and less air all the time…

PONDER: She gets to be stuck in her own puke and poop.

WATKINS: Uh huh. It’s her own life. Quitter.

JEANE NEWMAKER: Baby, do you want to be born?

CANDACE: [Weakly responds] No. [This is Candace’s last word.]

WATKINS: Candace is used to making her life everybody else’s problem. She’s not used to living her own life.

PONDER: Quitter, quitter, quitter, quitter, quit, quit, quit, quit. She’s a quitter…

[Ponder and Watkins chitchat about their dream homes and a million-dollar property nearby that is being remodeled.]

WATKINS: Let’s talk to the twerp.

[They unwrap Candace.]

WATKINS : Oh, there she is sleeping in her vomit.

Candace Elizabeth Newmaker: November 19th 1989-April 18th 2000

Pennies From Hell..(Or Screw You Woman's World Magazine and Adoption.com....)

I have read some sappy, happy, wappy bastard barf bucket inducing articles in my time concerning Closed Adoption, but the one I happened upon yesterday absolutely takes the cake. The little 'bee happy" cupcakes on the cover of this week's edition of Woman's World magazine that is, who I am so mad at right now I am going to boycott this publication forever. (A very proper act for all "forever children"). I am asking all of you to do the same.
How appropriate........
Root canal causing, sugar overloaded, toxic food color dyed monstrosities, as healthy as Closed Adoption(and guaranteed to make both Adoptees and BSE Mothers vomit), complete with an edible stinger used by one of the most irrational "bee mommies" I have ever had the displeasure of seeing a picture of.....
Can you feel Marian's sting everybody? Buzz Buzz......
You should, for she has just bit us all in the ass.......
Along with her new best friend, Adoption.com who is probably starting a new Adoption promotion campaign (and E-mailing the recipe to the NCFA as I type this) who would love to join them selling Bee Happy You Are Adopted cupcakes as a fundraiser to pay for envelopes and stamps!
Ga all lee!! How heartwarming!
It is amazing. It amazes me. Online. Offline. I write one comment about this atrocity called a magazine on FMF which ran an article about a miracle pill that is supposed to help Infertiles get pregnant, so maybe another child can be spared the legal identity theft and emotional oppression called Closed Adoption and wham! This. Gee. What's the matter? Didn't the doctor's miracle pill get you knocked up fast enough? Is Woman's World Magazine trying to cover their behind by offering another alternative for faulty reproductive parts? Are all of you barren battleaxes from Adoption.com all mad at all of us truthful Adoptees and BSE Mothers because we speak out against the Anti-Christ act of ripping babes away from their Mothers and giving them to women who won't even honor their own God's will for them not to raise a child. Using the Corporate America money fucking media to make even more money for the Corporate America money fucking Adoption Industry...(don't you know CEO's have vibrators with 100 dollar bills painted on them :)
Yes, America is just one big web of deceit weaving row upon row of traps for the innocent and vulnerable so they can eat them alive. Sigh. But I suppose one could expect no more from Adoption.com (the BSE Mother and disgruntled Adoptee banning website). Nor could one expect more from the Churches or the Adoption Industry either. But neither can we expect anymore from "beemommies"....
In italics Marian says..
"He was in the Navy and when we learned I was expecting you, he flew home to get married. But we were so young, we knew we couldn't give you the life you deserved".(Oh barf, barf up candy bee mommy cupcake antennas!)
Gee. They let males too young for the responsibility of raising his own child join the Navy and teach them how to blow up submarines and use grenades? Golly. Who ever thought changing a diaper and warming up a bottle was more dangerous than that? And with a steady paycheck from the U.S. Government to boot. Nope. Even during the BSE Era one had to be 18 to enlist in any part of the military and 18 is NOT too young to have a child. People have been having children at that age for centuries. So it goes without saying that this sensitivity deficient explanation for why Cindy was relinquished is nothing more than an Adoption promoting bunch of bee manure. (And they don't shit honey...) That's right people, follow the little blue circle printed on the first page of this happy wappy Adoption story to your womb fresh infant!!!!....(when you see what is printed inside of it, you will get why I say this....)
Of course Cindy's Real Father's age isn't mentioned at all. (How convenient!)But it was the norm in the 50's 60's and 70's for 18, 19, 20 and 21 yr olds to marry and start a family. Most young women DIDN'T even finish college because they did get married. Women in their 70's now know most of them dropped out and never finished school. And let's face it, in those days when male chauvinism prevailed most females only went to college to snag a husband. And what newly married couple was well off anyway? Unless you were Kennedy, a movie star or the heir to the Max Factor fortune young married couples didn't have a lot of money, but that fact didn't stop most of them from having children right way. And as their children got bigger, most likely their bank accounts did as well. THAT was the norm. THAT was the way life was supposed to be. (Christ Marian, how stupid do you think the general public IS?)
For those of you not into herbal medicinal medicine like I am, and due to that you may not have any organic ginger root on hand, you better go run and get your Bismuth liquid now, because the next quote from Marian will make you o.d. on gumdrop flying free through Adoption beemommy cupcake wings.....
In italics she continues...
(you know, because the following words are just so goddamn important, poignant and full of compassion...)
from and E-mail she writes to Cindy after being matched with her on Adoption.dumb (who never wants to hear anything negative about Closed Adoption, or Open Adoption gone wrong for that matter...)
"I thanked God that you had a new family-that you didn't have to endure the heartache of losing your daddy"......
What? What the hell you say? That's right folks. Happy Wappy beemommie Marian is really the happy wappiest that she gave her own flesh and blood up for Closed Adoption because Cindy's Real father died when she was 5. And this nauseating peice entitled, "Now I Know There Are Miracles", seems to indicate that Marian married Cindy's Father but got rid of her, although I am not sure).
Oh my fucking God!! (this expression being used of course to mock the ever unholy Christian Adoption Industry.....) It's a miracle! A new and wonderful sales pitch, I mean reason to throw your newborn baby away and place her in the arms of strangers who might do Heaven knows what to her, while keeping Adoption Agencies happy wappy billion dollar industry! Gee. Why don't ALL natural parents do that. Why don't ALL fertile females give their newborn babies, a part of their own body, who they carried inside of them and protected for almost a year, up for Closed Adoption just in case one of them dies when their child is growing up. Helpless babies who don't even get to speak for themselves about what THEY want in their lives, and how they want them to be. Lucky Cindy. Her beemommie did and spared her going to her Real Father's only funeral.....just another spectacular and rational reason to love and support Adoption! Spare your child any unfortunate natural event that effects their family tree! Why keep your child and let them suffer everything from a stubbed toe to a death in the family when they can live in the the Fairytaleland of nothing ever bad happens to Adoptive Parents (or their "chosen" special" little bastards!) For everyone knows that a law was passed there from the book of Leave It To Beaver that no Adoptive Mother's hair is ever out of place or no Adoptive Father's cardigan ever has a lintball! No Adoptive Mother ever breaks a nail, or gets a divorce or drinks herself into oblivion. No Adoptees are ever molested by their Adopted Parents or left to fry to death because they were forgotten in the back seat of a hot car. Adoptees never fail tests, break their noses, get rejected by classmates or fall out of a tree. And of course no Adoptive Parent ever, EVER dies before the Adoptee is 18.......
No happy wappy Closed Adoption story would be complete without the rare being called the happy wappy Adoptive Mother. The little raspberry candy that holds the licorice stinger on the icing on top of the beemommy cupcake...
Who is so happy wappy that her "gift from God" has found her Real Mother and spends her days dreaming of the shopping trips, barbeque's and quilting's they can do together. Especially since Cindy says that she considers Fern her "Real Mother" and not Marian...Yes. Every Adoptive Mother I know fantasies about this. For they are full of the maturity and grace it takes to not lower themselves to being the control freak, petty, juvenile, self-absorbed, egotistical green eyed dragon ladies we all know most of them are...
Yes. Fern. Who I really hope is an evolved Adoptive Mother. How refreshing THAT would be...Granted, maybe there are a few Adoptees that had open-minded, loving and emotionally healthy Adoptive Mothers. And maybe there are a few Adoptees that didn't care that they were told they were NOT legally allowed to know their own parents names growing up, but they are the extreme minority and the ones not able to deal with this discrimination and child abuse the most, NOT the norm. And the Adoption Industry of course takes advantage of this fact and only goes to the media with happy wappy sappy Closed Adoption stories so they can con the public that THAT is what Closed Adoption IS. The media, thanks to the ACLU supporting The Birth Mother Privacy Lie refuses to ever let we Adoptees, BSE Mothers and the victimized Real Mothers of Open Adoption that are rightfully speaking out against a sinister system ever, ever have a voice in print or in film. Christia Crawford was the only exception to the shut them up campaign they have waged against us, but even she has been purposely ignored and downplayed over the years since "Mommie Dearest" was published and became a movie. And when we do speak out against the bigotry spewed at us "rotten little bastards" and refuse to be plastic commodities and demand we be treated like the human beings we are, we are deemed neurotic, difficult, angry and in need of psychiatric help because we won't cooperate in the make money for the Adoption Industry game we have been forced to play. If your digestive system is strong enough, go check out this Adoption promoting article, compliments of Adoption.com sometime this week if you are waiting in line at the supermarket, but whatever you do, DON'T buy it. It isn't worth you one hundred and 79 pennies. Pennies from Hell. Pennies that Cindy says she strangely kept finding all weekend, the first weekend she had heard from beemommie Marian. Coins she felt were being placed there by her Real Father in Heaven! Pennies that are sending the message I love you! Pennies that in all reality, due to the evil support Closed Adoption tone in this story send the message he is so glad he never got to see her face thanks to the wonderful Industry whose bank accounts were opened in hell........

As an Adoptee who has never had the pleasure of being able to meet my own Real Father for almost fifty years, this article further angers me as I feel Cindy has no right to assume her Real Father is all happy wappy in the afterlife that he missed the opportunity to ever be with her. Even if it would of only been for five years. No one either has a right to play God and interfere in the natural order of events in someone else's life. Whether it be nun or priest, social worker, PAP, Adoptive Parent or beemommie.

Man never had the right to take someone off of their path.

AND KNOWING ONE'S BLOODLINE AND BEING AN ACTIVE PART OF IT, IS EVERYONE'S PATH.

It is no supernatural occurrence either to come across pennies scattered around one's house. It happens to me all the time. It is stomach turning however to think pennies would represent a sentiment of I'm glad so many were spent to buy you out of your own life..........your own experiences.........your own heritage...........and a chance of a relationship with me..........

I am sure that where ever Cindy's Real Father is he knows now it was wrong to give her away. And that he lost the best gift he ever got. A gift that is priceless and that all the pennies on planet earth could never buy. Holding Cindy in his arms, listening to her laugh, bouncing her on his knee, knowing who his own child is...........and that she lost the most priceless gift ever given to her as well.......
I don't know about you, but I will be saving all my pennies for fruit and vegetables for the rest of the week. I think I'm sappy wappy cupcaked out...........


And yes, I am back. My nice little vacation from insults and lies interrupted by cheesy reading material. I realize I went out like a lamb due to Blogger Burnout but I have returned like a lion (and not a cowardly one at that)...so for all of you who thought you got rid of me....Fat chance. Dream On. I'm not going anywhere.......:)

Shadows Of The Family Tree

is the name of it and I am sure it is as awesome as the tittle it was given....I plan on purchasing AmyAdoptee's new E-book, which is chock full of good information for all Adoptees (and everyone else who is sane enough to know that Closed Adoption is just plain wrong), and I absolutely can not wait to read it! Having Amy for a friend, and talking to her on the phone as much as I have has been one of the good points of being in the Adoption Blogger circle, for it has enabled me to meet her as well as learn alot from her incredibly educating entries. Amy is a smart cookie, she is strong and compassionate, sympathetic and kind, and I am beyond honored to know her. I have heard her laugh, I had heard her cry, and I always feel relieved when I hear her voice. Now I can be touched when I read her newly published words......
Go Amy!
(Click on the link for her Texans For Adult Adoptees OBC Access Blog at
the bottom of my blog in the Bastards Are Beautiful list to order it for only $10! Deal of the year.....:)

Exhaustion And Blogging Don't Mix.......

so when I sat down Friday to type the entry I posted for The Fourth of July I probably shouldn't have, as I have had to correct it yet once again, changing wording I posted incorrectly and leaving out entire sentences I wanted included....when coffe fails to work, it is best to walk away from a computer too.....(either that or the typo fairy really nailed me...;)

** double typo boo-boo fixer (damn,I'm glad this holiday is over......)

Just A Little Typo.....

So I don't insult the whole country, the * fixes my technical boo boo below....
:)

Adoption Destroys Independence.....

What a joke The Fourth of July is for Adoptees. We are not free in this country. Not anymore. We were once, but one of the greatest ironies of our plight is that we lost our freedom in a country that boasted it was the free-est country in the world...after 1951 when they stole our identities and hijacked our bloodlines, and forced us to be dependant on our oppressors for any information pertaining to our births and who we really are, America regressed 180 degrees....regressing whilst still keeping hypocrisy it's forte, by letting the coined term "We The People" only apply to white Christian males that indulged in chauvinism and and the continual abuse of Native and African Americans.....from this, the United States **"financially progressed" (according to their warped minds as once again Corporate America and Christian Clergy put money over morality)to the Orwellian act of ripping babies from their Mother's arms and telling those babies they can NOT know who their Mothers were....and many times, for Adult Adoptees, going to the Adoption Agency that sold us to Infertiles for our histories, is about as helpful as an African American man of yesteryear being forced to ask the moronic KKK to rebuild his house they burnt down in the first place......**(as I have mentioned before, the Agency I had to deal with, lied to me for over 25 about not having my time of birth and forced me twice to pay for this "unidentifying information" they had no intention of giving me...)
We Adoptees, called "Forever Children", are in reality kept as "Forever Infants". Our voices silenced still as adults, to keep us mute like when we were babies, so we have no control whatsoever over our own lives. Growing up with out the right to see our Real Parents faces, and to be told their names is about as comfortable as being forced to wear a diaper as an adult....for that is how it feels to be denied our OBC's and to have to deal with a sinister middle man in the form of an Adoption Agency, (due to a hateful lie called Birth Mother Privacy), which proves to be nothing less than humiliating as we are told once 18 by them, we can not know our own Parents names or meet them without their permission....many people are saying, that we need to get more radical in our fight for our OBC's...and I beyond agree with this....so maybe next year, we should protest in attire on "BastardsRPeople2" floats, in every town, that reflect our message and reflect the true astrocity of the day......red white and blue striped colored Depends over our shorts with stars drawn on with yellow crayons......and of course, we can't forget the pacifiers in our mouths.......I wonder if Congress would get the message then.....I think AP's should.....after all, those of them who fight to keep our records closed will find themselves in a pair of Depends someday, as old age reduces them to the state of infancy once again......and what is that old saying.......be nice to your Adopted Children-they pick your convalescence home.......the denial of Independence comes in many forms.......so Happy Birthday America.....**and my birthday wish for you, is that after 233 years, this country will finally get everything right and your *Pro Adoption/Pro Sealed Record citizens will finally grow the hell up......

Fighting The Tide That Drowns Me........

I waited until Monday morning to read Sunday's paper and then after I read her article, I wished I hadn't read it at all....I wish I hadn't paid two bucks for it either.....but alas, when one is involved in the agonizing fight for Adoptee Rights, there is rarely any rest for the weary, or balm that ever heals our wounds....her words upset me for many reasons. One being we all know that our Real Parents medical histories are NEVER updated from the time scant amounts of information are written down when our Mothers were carrying us. Therefore, it goes without saying that diseases that they had yet to get and diseases that had yet to be named, that could be passed on to us and our own children, are never relayed to us while we are growing up and when many of us are adults. Perhaps she isn't aware of this, but as an Adoptee she needs to be. I don't know her personally although she is well known, and loved I might add here. Where I live. Her column at times has even made me smile or let out a big laugh, as she talks about the perils of Parenthood. But not this time....I respect her feelings, sort of, yet I feel she has set us back in this maddening war we have been thrown into for what we never should of lost in the first place. Our OBC's. Due to the greatest form of identity theft in the United States. Closed Adoption. The general public should know that her feelings about being Adopted do NOT reflect the majority of Adoptees in America (especially mine).....and the statistics for reunions through registries like Alma and Soundex are proof of that....so are the multitude of blogs from rightfully ungrateful little bastards and BSE Mothers all over Bloggerland.......yet, in all reality it does not matter. For Birth Mother Privacy IS A LIE, and if just one Adoptee, just one, wanted to see her face in her Real Mothers, and feel her Real Father's strong arms around her, that should be enough. Yet we have been all jammed into the same can, like a bunch of sardines, along with the hope of any individuality concerning the circumstances of our conceptions and births lost within a dark sealed container.......and like sardines and the ever condesending G word, that STINKS......

"Gratitude to go around"
By Alicia Blaisdell-bannon

June 28, 2009

"Once again, I was unable to stop my birthday from rolling around that last week in June.

And, once again, there came a time, a quiet moment when I was driving in to work, when I thought about the parents who created me.

And then I thought about my birth parents.

My birth parents did a difficult thing 57 years ago, giving a baby up for adoption. I don't think I quite fathomed how difficult it would have been until I had babies myself. You think it's a myth, that whole bonding at birth thing (because "you don't even remember labor pains" certainly is) until they place an infant in your arms and suddenly you are metal filings to her magnet.

I have imagined the scenario in my mind many times, my 20-year-old birth mother holding firm to her decision not to keep a baby born out of wedlock, as they would have said then (and some still say today, though it sounds dreadfully old-fashioned now). Of course, I have no idea what actually happened — in the hospital or afterward.

And I've never pined to know, although I understand those who do go down that path. I have enough medical history to satisfy me and, as for the rest, I suspect it will remain a story whose ending simply is never known.

The story I'm familiar with is that of a couple, in upstate New York, who tried for 10 years to have a baby, but couldn't, and applied to adopt. And one morning, a couple days before Christmas, they got a call that a 6-month-old baby was available and coming their way.

And so I did.

I have heard people refer to their birth parents as "the people who created me," but that doesn't ring true to me.

I get it that my eyes, and my hair color, and my ability to gain five pounds by driving by a bakery (10 if I inhale) all have genetic explanations.

But the adult who was created from that 6-month-old child is the product of two loving people and the life they created for their new baby, their little girl, their stubborn "tween," their college student, their married-then-divorced daughter.

Because of them, I like to laugh. And read. I like to listen. And share. If I'm comfortable in my own skin, it's because I grew up thinking everyone should be.

On my birthday, I always whisper a prayer of gratitude to my biological parents. I hope, whoever they are, they know they started a story that, thanks to the parents who raised me, has had many happy chapters".

FEEL FREE TO LEAVE A COMMENT TO THIS ARTICLE ABOUT ADOPTION ON THE NEWPAPERS WEBSITE, ALL REAL MOMS AND ADOPTEES (AND PLEASE DO):
http://www.capecodonline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/section?Category=LIFE0701

AP's and PAP's Should Not Be Online 24/7 Harrassing We Adoptees

because doing so maybe causing your infertility!! According to the following article, and many scientists, laptops are reducing sperm counts and are effecting a woman's reproductive system as well! So instead of whining online all day long, that you can't get pregnant and trying to find a fertile woman's baby to manipulate away from her, and an Adoptee's idenity to ruin, try turning off your computer for a while and let Nature take her course!!

"Laptops linked to male infertility"
MAYWOOD, Ill., June 15 (UPI)

Men who aspire to fatherhood may need to start changing how they use laptops, a U.S. reproductive specialist warns.

Dr. Suzanne Kavic of the Loyola University Chicago Stritch School of Medicine in Maywood, Ill., near Chicago, says excessive laptop use has been linked to male infertility.

"Laptops are becoming increasingly common among young men wired into to the latest technology," Kavic says in statement. "However, the heat generated from laptops can impact sperm production and development making it difficult to conceive down the road."

Kavic -- director of the division of reproductive endocrinology at the Loyola University Health Systems and an associate professor in the department of obstetrics and gynecology and department of medicine at the School of Medicine -- recommends placing laptops on desktops to prevent damaging sperm and decreasing counts and motility.

Sperm quality and quantity as well as sperm motility -- movement -- are key to male fertility, Kavic says.
© 2009 United Press International, Inc.

Back For A Bit......

I have been having some problems with Wordpress and the design of my new blog, so since I miss blogging so much, I decided I would continue here for a while until all the glitches have been ironed out....and speaking of glitches, mind glitches that is, and the Daddy of them all, Closed Adoption, here is another good reason why....

I'm Moving!

To Wordpress that is! So, for the next couple of weeks I will be busy exporting this blog and dressing up The Improper Adoptee in it's new template and getting used to my new home. I'll still be around making comments on my favorite blogs however, because if I don't I will miss my friends too much! (And reading their incredible posts). I appreciate too, the nice things said to me in the last two weeks after I did come back to Blogger from some other Bloggers, and the entries here will still be visible until the feeds for Wordpress are active. As soon as I am settled on my new domain, I will publish the link on this blog so you can continue to read about how and why The Adoption Industry oppresses we Adoptees and our Real Mothers. So until then, everyone take care and keep fighting the good Open Records fight.

If Only Adoption Agencies Had A Heart.....

I could while away the hours, dreaming of sweet flowers
to give to my Real Mom
and she'd smile and she'd hug me
and then she'd say she loves me
If they only had a brain.....
I never would of been a taken'
and lived a life of fakin'
I was born to someone else
I could know who I look like
I could know where I came from
If they only had a brain.....
but instead
I get a
childish witch
who wanted to ruin my life,
who was cruel and hard on me
who stole my dignity
I think about the hours
wasted in a tower
hidden from
my true family
and the truth
I know it's out there
but those less intelligent
always abuse power
Oh if they only had a brain.....
We Adoptees
are an empty kettle
cause of those
with souls like metal
who ripped us all apart
And they punish us for presumin'
we should
be treated like we're human
Oh if they only had a heart.....
Imagine me
so strong and free
no mind games to slow me down
No clowns to push me around
And make me
their commodity
But I'm enslaved by their emotions
of deception and devotion
The latter they demand of me
and they con and they cheat me
and don't care
how they treat me
Oh if they only had a heart.....
Yeh it's sad believe me people
judgementals high up
on their steeple
who mock me day and night
they have no right to steal my OBC
and lock it up away from me
They sure have alot of nerve......
I'm afraid there's no denying
about bastards they'll keep on lying
a fate I don't deserve
I'd be treated like an equal
I'd be forgiven like I should be
there would be no
damn mystery
to haunt me
and to hurt me
If they didn't have such nerve.....
and they would just grow a heart
and they'd finally get a brain......
Oh Adoption is insane!.........

(I swear Closed Adoption is about as comforting as Flying Monkey's..... :)
Happy Mother's Day Everybody. Sigh.....

Thankyou DMC and Zara Phillips!

for helping to expose how mistreated we Adoptees are and for helping to banish the myths spewed out by the Adoption Industry that buy and sell children like we are sacks of potatoes. If you have not read the heart wrenching lyrics composed by these two very talented Adoptees, then take a look at what follows:
"Tell me do you remember
When you’re on the streets
Do you look for me,
The way I look for you,
how I wish I knew, I wish I knew,
as Darryl raps,
At night I can't sleep, I toss and turn My true reality is what I wanna learn
But they are tellin me I can't see the proof On a little piece of paper that holds the truth
Of who I am and what I be Yeah I’m living but I’m missin a part of me
I have a right to know where I come from"

"At night I can't sleep
I toss and turn
My true reality is what I wanna learn
But they are tellin’ me I can't see the proof
On a little piece of paper that holds the truth
Of who I am and what I be
Yeah I'm living but I'm missin’ a part of me
I have a right to know where I come from
Cause it’s my human right like everyone.”

We Adoptees all know we feel these lyrics in our souls every day and can as well further appreciate the words of Zara Phillips herself concerning being denied our Civil Rights in this country:
“Growing up in England, I always saw the United States as being so far ahead, but with this, America is really behind. When I heard how backward things are here, all I could think was, ‘Are you kidding?’”
DMC has made equally important and poignant statements concerning how unfairly we "Illegitimates" are treated in America:
“Knowing who you are is about health, happiness — a human right",
"People who aren’t part of the adoption community don’t know about the issues, the pain, the emotions that can come from not knowing where you come from.”
I am hoping like everyone else, that this much needed musical testament to all we have lost, that also shines a light on the unjust emotional torture sealed files have caused us throughout our lives, will help win New Jersey Adoptees legal access to the little peice of paper that will let them be legit human beings in the USA once and for all, and will eventually help all of us Adoptees have access to our true idenities, our heritage, and our medical records by being granted the right to possess our orginal birth certificates as well. I agree with other Adoptees that "I'm Legit" would be an incredible theme song for this year's Adoptees Rights Protest in July, and I hope DMC and Zara win a Grammy for it! No one deserves that award more than you two! You both rock and will always be heros to all of us....so again, thankyou!

Back To Adoption

It has been agreed that spookie will no longer be discussing me and I will no longer be discussing spookie, which is for the best. So this blog will be back to concentrating on the barbarity of Closed Adoption Records in The United States and what we must do to win the legal rights to what is rightfully ours and always should of been, our OBC's. Two voices that are being heard all over Adoptionland and the airwaves are of the incredible and well known musicians, DMC and Zara Phillips who have put both their and our pain due to the hijacking of our information and the Birth Mother Privacy Lie into a wonderful new song that will hopefully educate the public how we Adoptees are trodden upon and are treated as nothing less than commodities. So on that note (and excuse the pun), I would like to say.....

Weird

I haven't finished the series of other blogs I wanted to publish, due to complications with some things in my life right now. And because I have other major situations that I need to focus on as well, one that I am sure is pretty obvious. So, instead this weekend, I came back to my blog just to add some messages, links and new pictures as I will not be back until some things are resolved. But, as I was going to add a new link this morning to my 50-50- Adoption movie list, I happened upon the article below, via a link description that caught my eye. I had planned to add the Hallmark's channel's new movie, "Taking A Chance On Love", the sequel to last years, "The Note", a movie that both helped and hurt Adoptees and Real Mothers. There are lines and situations in both these movies that come straight out of the NCFA's mouth, yet at the same time, with the most recent one, shows what liars they are about Birth Mother Privacy. And no one relays that message better, although perhaps not intended, than Katie Boland herself, who plays the part of "Christine", an Adoptee, whose Real Mother is portrayed by Genie Francis. Apparently, Katie's real life Mother had put her first child up for Adoption, only to search for her and to find her again when she was 18. She did NOT want Birth Mother Privacy. So I find that this actresses true life experience contradicts some of the the theme of "The Note", that forced it on my 50-50 list, when I first made it. If you haven't seen "The Note", both 1 & 2, they are worth renting or even purchasing, as both of them show quite clearly the weird world of wacky falsehoods spewed out by the ever devious Adoption Industry. Until then, read the interesting words of Katie Boland below....and see everyone later....Again.

"Taking a Chance on Love" - Sequel to "The Note"
Posted: Monday, January 19, 2009
by Angela Walker

"The Hallmark Channel is airing Taking a Chance on Love on Saturday, January 31 (check The Hallmark Channel website for local listings). This sequel to the smash hit The Note, based on the novel of the same name by Angela Hunt, picks up where the first movie left off.
In The Note, we met Peyton MacGruder (Genie Francis) and King Danville (Ted McGinley), co-workers at a local paper who began dating at the end of the film. Executive producer Joel Rice said that people responded so strongly to the relationship between Peyton and King that they decided to create a story focusing on the couple.
Actor turned writer/director Doug Barr (television's Designing Women), who directed The Note, was asked to pen the screenplay and direct the sequel. "Both of these characters are very flawed. King brings baggage from a previous marriage, she brings baggage," says Barr. "They both have a ways to go to become improved human beings, which is what good stories are all about."
McGinley, who said he "jumped at the chance" to play opposite Genie Francis again, was glad to do the sequel. For him, the movie is about taking risks, knowing that often the rewards outweigh the risks.
Known as a prankster, McGinley had a great subject for his jokes in Genie Francis. "He knows that I'm a little bit blond, and he keeps me in line," she said during an interview. Best known for her role as Laura, part of the Luke and Laura duo on General Hospital, Francis was more than happy to do the sequel. "It's fantastic to have another character to re-visit," she said. "I feel so lucky to have had a success with another character this late in my career."

Katie Boland, who portrays Peyton's daughter Christine talks about the way this film mirrors her own life. In the story, Peyton gave Christine up for adoption at birth after the tragic death of her husband. In The Note, the two were reunited at the end of the film. "My mother actually gave my sister up for adoption," Boland said of her own family. "She found my sister when my sister was 18, which is the age Christine was. My sister and my mom are very close; they have a similar relationship to Peyton and Christine. Isn't that crazy?"

Even though Angela Hunt didn't write this sequel, the story uses a note as a plot device again. This time, a note from 40 years ago sets events in motion that will affect the lives of the main characters."

Paper Roses, Life Like Dolls and Careless Hearts.......

"We believe it is inappropriate to use young private citizens for marketing purposes," a spokeswoman for the first lady told Crain's chicagobusiness.com."

The medical procedure I need to have has been postponed for a week or so due to reasons I wish not to discuss. So in lieu of still not feeling well, but putting on a brave front in public, and taking yet another dose of anti-biotics, I have had time to read current stories happening in our country and as I have come across them the recent words of our First Lady, as so much in life does, took me straight back to the dark world of Adoption.

CHICAGO,(UPI)
Jan. 22
"U.S. first lady Obama Michelle Obama is taking a Westmont, Ill., company to task for marketing dolls with the same names as her children, Malia and Sasha.
Ty Inc., the company that created and distributes Beanie Babies, has been promoting two dolls with dark complexions and dark hair one named "Marvelous Malia" and the other named "Sweet Sasha" as part of its TyGirlz line. The items hit the market this month, prior to President Barack Obama's inauguration.
"We believe it is inappropriate to use young private citizens for marketing purposes," a spokeswoman for the first lady told Crain's chicagobusiness.com.
A Ty spokeswoman had told Crain's the dolls were created with the Obama daughters in mind, but the spokeswoman Thursday said the dolls "were not designed to look like any living person."
"Somehow there was a misunderstanding," the spokeswoman said."

It also took me straight back into the cha-chinging world of Corporate Lies, that even to the wife of The President of The United States are spewed without hesitation and used as an antidote for liability and the future lack of sales. We are all quite familiar with what lies have been spewed to sell us. We Adoptees. We are also quite educated on the matter of Mother/Child exploitation, a grave subject Michelle Obama just got a taste of. And if our First Lady can feel that her daughter's are being used for the purpose of marketing then I wonder what she would think of a stomach turning list selling real life children for Adoption that I saw yesterday on the wonderful Cheerio's (Surviving Adoption Loss) blog (trashing the following like everyone should be of course)

From a Christian Adoption Agency blogspot:
http://apathoftheheart.blogspot.com/2009/01/january-23-2009-adoption-situations.html
"Friday, January 23, 2009
January 23, 2009
Adoption Situations
I hope this post finds everyone doing well! Thank you for all the comments and suggestions of more adoption books. We're headed to Borders this weekend to expand our library:)

The following are our most current situations available to our clients:

1.) *NEW* Caucasian/African-American Boy, 2/10/09, UT, $23K + potential medical expenses, *BM used marijuana during pregnancy and wants open adoption with poss visits
2.) *NEW* African-America/Hispanic Girl, 2/28/09, Maryland, $20K, Alcohol exp during pregnancy
3.) *NEW* Caucasian/Hispanic Unk Gender, $35K, May
4.) Caucasian Unk Gender, $37K, June
5.) Caucasian/African-American Boy, $30-35K, Apr
6.) Caucasian/African-American Boy, $30-35K, June
7.) African-American Boy, 2/23/09, $20K, GA
8.) African-American Girl, 3/10/09, $20K, AL
9.) African-American Boy, 3/13/09, $20K, GA
10.)African-American Boy, 3/25/09, $24, UT
11.)African-American Girl, 4/11/09, $24K, UT
Contact me at karalee@christianadoptionconsultants.com if you're interested or to find out more about CAC. Have a great weekend, everyone! :)"

Why does this list remind me of the satanic days of slavery in our country? The taking of beautiful and innocent people, dragging them up onto a podium with collars around their necks like dogs, as white Christians shouted out how much they could be bought for as they separated Mother & child too, forcing them to work on different properties and plantations, without at times, telling either where they were. A wise man once said, "evil never dies, it just changes form". And so much of the condescending attitude African Americans were victims of over 150 years ago as slaves, and for decades afterwords, is parallel to the same condescending attitude towards we seen as inferior to, bastards. And any child who is truly an orphan with no living relatives to care for him or her, should never under any circumstances have his or her tragedy be used to make a company owner rich. Yet the Adoption Industry, along with exploiting and abusing born out of wedlockers, does this as well. If a child whose parents have sadly died, needs adults to care for them because they have no other living relatives to do so, then a new home should be offered due to the caring and love of other people whilst keeping their original identity and first and surnames in tact. They should not be given a place to stay due to the monetary gain benefited from them as the system does now, due to unfortunately losing the most important people in their young lives.. Nor should any child, have to suffer the humiliation of being listed like a material item, OR A GIFT to be purchased for Infertiles. Or like slaves were, in newspaper advertisments in the same fashion as the soon to be Adoptees above. When I was 16, I saw the miniseries 'Roots" on tv. Just the name of it, brought about devastating feelings for me. Not only because I have always hated the prejudice towards African Americans, but because of a sadness, a sense of being ostrized, and being made to feel I was not as good as other people, that lived deep within in me everday, because I was not legally allowed to know who my own Mother was because I did not come into the world in the "right way". Growing up with and having to live with, an Adopted Mother too, who hated "the blacks" and listening to her mean spirited, assinine insults about these nice people only intensified my daily grief.... the stories about how her family owned slaves in Virgina and the anger I felt inside as she told them with a gleam in her eye. And then there was the night she announced that "white people were made by God and blacks probably evolved from apes". (And keep in mind, she claimed she was a Christian). This digusting and outrageous remark was bluntly spewed out at us by her at the dinner table. It took all my self control to not throw my plate at her. But God, I wanted too, I really, really wanted too......of course, she considered me "over-sensitive" because I objected to her views. And quite disappointed I might add, that the child she bought and paid for to be hers, refused to Adopt her obnoxious mindset. And that was part of the reason she had always hated me. Because I would not be what she demanded I be. You know, owning me and all, like Adoptive Parents think they own all the little charges they have purchased....for we are not paper dolls. We can not be traced around our Adoptive Parents characters and cut out to match them. Anymore than we can look in the mirror and see a resembelance to theirs. Yet, we are forced by the Adoption Industry, The Department of Social Work, The Church and the AP's themselves to stifle who we really are, and the need to know that and play house with people who see us as a commodity, whose only purpose for living is too let them be who they want to be. Parents. The slaves were forced to be people they were not as well. With absolutely no consideration for how they saw themselves. For what they wanted to be. For what they wanted to do with their lives. As we are forced to take another families name and heritage, being ripped away from our Mothers who wanted us and sold by Adoption Agencies and forced to be another woman's son or daughter, they were forced to be butlers and maids, cottonpickers and servants, ripped away from their Mother country, forced into a new foreign one controlled by demonic people who denied them their identities, again all for the sake of the (Un)Holy Buck . Marie Osmond, the new and annoying spokeswoman for the over advertised Nutri-System diet plan, and an LDS Adoptive Mother, wrote a song once when she was a teenager. I remember latching onto that song, as a teenager too, because of how I felt my Adoptive Mother did not treat me like a human being. Because I had always felt unauthentic, and not like a real person, being denied all I had a right too and numb half of the time because of this. And although it was a love song, "Paper Roses" hit the deprived and put upon due to Adoption part of me, that in all these years, has just escalated and has never found peace.

"Paper Roses
Paper Roses
Oh how real those roses seem to be
But they're only imitation,
Like your imitation love for me"

My Adoptive Mother was good at putting on airs. And facades. Acting like she gave a damn about me in front of her friends, but becoming colder to me than the iceberg that sunk the Titanic in private. And considering the fact, that I know now, that Adoption Agencies would give the names of our Real Parents to our Adoptive Parents just for the asking and of course the AP's could of told us, to spare us intolerable and horrific pain, but most did not, all love that Adoptive Parents say they feel for their Adoptive children is imitation love. For it is NOT love to keep someone from knowing who they truly are. And it is NOT love keeping someone from being who they really are. Just like slavery wasn't love. And either is closed Adoption.

"But like a big red rose that's made of paper
There isn't any sweetness in your heart
Paper Roses
Paper Roses
Oh how real those roses seem to be
But they're only imitation
Like you imitation love for me"

Ironic, isn't it, that a girl who who wrote a song like this, would grow up to use a piece of paper to make something fake SEEM real, as she denies her Adopted children their true identities and supports a religion that thinks this is just ducky. And is the word of God......(oh please......)
Christian slave owners thought selling "black" people was God's will too. As according to the Old Testament they had the "mark of cain". So abusing them day in and day out was just ducky according to them, with God too. (NOT). Only thing is the 11th commandment, given by Christ, THAT THEY NEVER LISTENED TOO, demands not abusing other people.....bastards included.....My Adoptive Mother ate up all the sterotypical manure about Adoptees that she enjoyed ingesting about African Americans that she loved to try to cram down my throat in my in the best interest of the child forever home. That was never in the best interest of me....
I feel sorry for The First Lady as she has just felt the first sting of Mother/Child exploitation. It is very difficult to be a Mother and a public figure and I am glad she spoke out against The TY Company, as her adorable daughter's deserve to be protected at all times. BSE Mothers know about Mother/Child exploitation too in a different way and have written blog after blog for years about this sorrid subject here in Adoptionland. These poor women who were forced to sign away their newborn babies to complete and total strangers knows how it feels to have their children used in the money-grubbing world of marketing. And we Adoptees know how it feels to be marketed. And so do the African Americans. And the Native Americans too, as their children have been stolen from them on Reservations and sold to Christian Adoptive families who have alot of money, indulging these Christ followers in their plastic values and the worshipping of Jesus who according to how they look at things, will be coming back in big white Bentley.....(don't you know only well off Christians are good enough to heaven?)......
Growing up in an closed Adoption is a fate that could of only been designed by an evil force. And being Adopted by a woman who withheld the scraps of the only kind of "Motherly" love I was allowed to have is a hell I never deserved. To be Adopted, means to be weak when you could of been strong, numb when you could of felt who you are, sad when you could of felt happy, and feeling bound when you were meant to feel free. It's funny too, because one of the rare compliments my Adoptive Mother ever gave me was concerning the poetry I used to write. That she would look through when I was in school even though I hid it away in my room. The thing is though, she thought I was writing it about boys who didn't want to date me. But there were only a few poems I wrote about unrequited love. I wrote mostly about my Real Mother. And about her. She didn't know I wrote them about being Adopted either....

There are times
When like a china doll
So fragile, so vulnerable
I sit high upon a shelf
Far above the rest
Not to be celebrated
Only to be kept out of reach
From harsh and callous hands
Knowing that if I were to be dropped
By a careless heart
I would break
Into a thousand pieces
And even if put back together again
By a tender soul
The cracks of betrayal
Would still remain
Evident to all the world
That never again
Would I be the same.....
1974

People can't be dolls, and some dolls shouldn't reflect other people. The lessons we are forced to learn due to other people's dispicable American greed just never seem to end....

PLEASE SIGN THIS NEW PETITION DEMANDING A FEDERAL LAW TO ISSUE ORIGINAL BIRTH CERTIFICATES TO ALL ADOPTEES!

I had been planning to start a Care2 Petition like this months ago,
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/2/release-original-birth-certificates-for-adoptees
but due to health problems I never got around to it, but boy am I glad that Mara did! (And thank you). We need this SO badly, as trying to open our records and get back the civil rights we once had state by state is like pulling teeth. A plight none of us ever deserved. JUST LIKE WE NEVER DESERVED THE BIRTH MOTHER PRIVACY LIE THAT PRO-ADOPTION CHRISTIANS, WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HONEST AND ARE NOT BEING SO, TELL TO KEEP OUR RECORDS CLOSED IN ORDER TO MAKE MONEY. So please head over to the following website and sign this wonderful proposal as soon as possible. I find it quite heart warming to, that I came across this on Martin Luther King Day. Because I know if he was still here, his wonderful words of wisdom that still echo throughout America and in the heart of millions, he would want applied to all of us Adoptees as well......for he was compassionate enough to know, that we deserve to be free at last too....and thank you to Dr. King, for being the incredibly remarkable and wise person you were. No one deserves a day dedicated to them more than you....

Ann Coulter Blames Single Mothers For America's Problems On This Morning's "Today" Show.....

"Unhappy with today's problems? Ann Coulter blames single mothers".
Ann Coulter appeared on the Today Show, her "life time ban" having been shortened to a single day. Ann Coulter spent just shy of ten minutes jousting verbally with host Matt Lauer, who took on a tone of mAnn Coulter on the Today Show more in sorrow than in anger.
Matt Lauer started by denying that NBC had "banned Ann Coulter for life" and asked why she had said that she was. Ann Coulter pointed out that the story had been spread by Matt Drudge, who claimed to have gotten in from an unnamed source within NBC. Ann Coulter pointed out that she had only been rescheduled after Drudge had splashed the headlines of her "life time ban" on his website. Ann Coulter did go a little too far, as is her practice, by comparing herself to Roland Burris. She is, by the way in case you were wondering, delighted that the Democrats are tearing themselves apart over Roland Burris.
Matt Lauer spent some time thrusting and parrying with Ann Coulter about the use of Barack Obama's middle name, Hussein. Ann Coulter, feigning innocence, wondered what the big deal was about the use of the President Elect's middle name, which actually is Hussein. Matt Lauer suggested that Ann Coulter was stroking up the tin foil hat brigade which still believes that Barack Obama is a secret Muslim. Matt Lauer, by asking that question, proves that he doesn't get Ann Coulter. Ann Coulter was not trying to provoke right wing crazies, but rather the left wing variety. She says "Barack Hussein Obama." Matt Lauer is shocked that Ann Coulter used the President Elect's full name. Ann Coulter feigns innocence wondering what the big deal with the name is. What's in a name? Just imagine "Thomas Hitler Dewey" trying to run for President in 1948.

Matt Lauer then proceeded to the actual book Ann Coulter is selling, "Guilty", by arguing that Ann Coulter is being mean to unwed mothers. Ann Coulter pointed out that children of unwed mothers tend to possess social pathologies, such as having criminal records and drug problems, far out of proportion to their numbers. If Ann Coulter can be faulted, and this may be in the book, she didn't mention that for every unwed mother there is an unwed father who is just as, if not more so, irresponsible.

Matt Lauer finished up by objecting to Ann Coulter's "tone," suggesting that, really, people elected Barack Obama because they cared about the issues. Ann Coulter had a good laugh over that. Ann Coulter on the Today Show, pointing out that the media eschewed tough, issues-oriented questions of Barack Obama and preferred soft balls.
All in all, it was a fun little sparring match. Matt Lauer was a game fighter, but Ann Coulter artfully parried all of his blows and landed a few herself. It was Ann Coulter by a technical knockout".
A FUN little sparring match? I highly doubt it was fun for any single Mother, or BSE Mother or Adoptee to listen to this hard hearted, overly aggressive, battleaxe to speak about a subject she knows NOTHING about. I have to wonder what Coutler thinks about widowed single Mothers as well. You know who God choose to make single since the world began by letting their husbands die..... or women left by their husbands against their will. Or woman who left their minister and pastor husbands because they cheated on them. Coulter also apparently will be trashing single Mothers in her new book pictured above, "Guilty:Liberal Victims And Their Assult On America". It goes without saying as a Christian woman who looks down on females parenting alone, she is no alli in our fight for Open Records. Nor, I doubt is she a forgiving Christian like most aren't when forgiveness is SUPPOSED to be the foundation of this religion, for in reality, Christianity DOES NOT EXIST WITH OUT IT AND IS A FALSE RELIGION. So instead of "slamming" single Mothers, someone needs to tell Coulter that she needs to remember that Jesus's best friend was a FORNICATING prostitute and that He was never a finger wagging, blowhard like she acts like, jump off her Ivory Tower, and stop thinking she is all that when she is nothing but ALL JUDGEMENTAL. Because THAT is what she is "Guilty" of......and isn't THAT a sin according to Christ? Hmmmm?.....
The comments due to her little prima donna temper tantrum this morning on NBC are coming in fast and hard on many websites and many forums. This is my favorite from AOL News:
angie
2009-01-07 19:19:04
"Ann Coulter is a shrill shrew... I had the unpleasant experience of catching this interview. Could she be more bitter?!?! Is she unable to have kids herself or is it that no self respecting man would touch this frigid wretch? Statistics can be manupulated to prove any point you want to make when manipulated to support the bull you choose to regurgitate. Anyone who would buy her book deserves to be ripped off for utter stupidity".
And oh yeah......wasn't there someone else who had a single Mother? Hmmmm....let me think....oh that's right........THE FUTURE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES. YEAH....A REAL DRUG HEAD, JAIL BIRD HE IS.....I think she is just attacking single Mothers because she can't stand the fact that the son of one is about to hold the most powerful position in the world. Pretty much trashes her categorizing theories doesn't? Trashes the Adoption Industries so tiring and assine mind$et as well......