
I have read some sappy, happy, wappy bastard barf bucket inducing articles in my time concerning Closed Adoption, but the one I happened upon yesterday absolutely takes the cake. The little 'bee happy" cupcakes on the cover of this week's edition of Woman's World magazine that is, who I am so mad at right now I am going to boycott this publication forever. (A very proper act for all "forever children"). I am asking all of you to do the same.
How appropriate........
Root canal causing, sugar overloaded, toxic food color dyed monstrosities, as healthy as Closed Adoption(and guaranteed to make both Adoptees and BSE Mothers vomit), complete with an edible stinger used by one of the most irrational "bee mommies" I have ever had the displeasure of seeing a picture of.....
Can you feel Marian's sting everybody? Buzz Buzz......
You should, for she has just bit us all in the ass.......
Along with her new best friend, Adoption.com who is probably starting a new Adoption promotion campaign (and E-mailing the recipe to the NCFA as I type this) who would love to join them selling Bee Happy You Are Adopted cupcakes as a fundraiser to pay for envelopes and stamps!
Ga all lee!! How heartwarming!
It is amazing. It amazes me. Online. Offline. I write one comment about this atrocity called a magazine on FMF which ran an article about a miracle pill that is supposed to help Infertiles get pregnant, so maybe another child can be spared the legal identity theft and emotional oppression called Closed Adoption and wham! This. Gee. What's the matter? Didn't the doctor's miracle pill get you knocked up fast enough? Is Woman's World Magazine trying to cover their behind by offering another alternative for faulty reproductive parts? Are all of you barren battleaxes from Adoption.com all mad at all of us truthful Adoptees and BSE Mothers because we speak out against the Anti-Christ act of ripping babes away from their Mothers and giving them to women who won't even honor their own God's will for them not to raise a child. Using the Corporate America money fucking media to make even more money for the Corporate America money fucking Adoption Industry...(don't you know CEO's have vibrators with 100 dollar bills painted on them :)
Yes, America is just one big web of deceit weaving row upon row of traps for the innocent and vulnerable so they can eat them alive. Sigh. But I suppose one could expect no more from Adoption.com (the BSE Mother and disgruntled Adoptee banning website). Nor could one expect more from the Churches or the Adoption Industry either. But neither can we expect anymore from "beemommies"....
In italics Marian says..
"He was in the Navy and when we learned I was expecting you, he flew home to get married. But we were so young, we knew we couldn't give you the life you deserved".(Oh barf, barf up candy bee mommy cupcake antennas!)
Gee. They let males too young for the responsibility of raising his own child join the Navy and teach them how to blow up submarines and use grenades? Golly. Who ever thought changing a diaper and warming up a bottle was more dangerous than that? And with a steady paycheck from the U.S. Government to boot. Nope. Even during the BSE Era one had to be 18 to enlist in any part of the military and 18 is NOT too young to have a child. People have been having children at that age for centuries. So it goes without saying that this sensitivity deficient explanation for why Cindy was relinquished is nothing more than an Adoption promoting bunch of bee manure. (And they don't shit honey...) That's right people, follow the little blue circle printed on the first page of this happy wappy Adoption story to your womb fresh infant!!!!....(when you see what is printed inside of it, you will get why I say this....)
Of course Cindy's Real Father's age isn't mentioned at all. (How convenient!)But it was the norm in the 50's 60's and 70's for 18, 19, 20 and 21 yr olds to marry and start a family. Most young women DIDN'T even finish college because they did get married. Women in their 70's now know most of them dropped out and never finished school. And let's face it, in those days when male chauvinism prevailed most females only went to college to snag a husband. And what newly married couple was well off anyway? Unless you were Kennedy, a movie star or the heir to the Max Factor fortune young married couples didn't have a lot of money, but that fact didn't stop most of them from having children right way. And as their children got bigger, most likely their bank accounts did as well. THAT was the norm. THAT was the way life was supposed to be. (Christ Marian, how stupid do you think the general public IS?)
For those of you not into herbal medicinal medicine like I am, and due to that you may not have any organic ginger root on hand, you better go run and get your Bismuth liquid now, because the next quote from Marian will make you o.d. on gumdrop flying free through Adoption beemommy cupcake wings.....
In italics she continues...
(you know, because the following words are just so goddamn important, poignant and full of compassion...)
from and E-mail she writes to Cindy after being matched with her on Adoption.dumb (who never wants to hear anything negative about Closed Adoption, or Open Adoption gone wrong for that matter...)
"I thanked God that you had a new family-that you didn't have to endure the heartache of losing your daddy"......
What? What the hell you say? That's right folks. Happy Wappy beemommie Marian is really the happy wappiest that she gave her own flesh and blood up for Closed Adoption because Cindy's Real father died when she was 5. And this nauseating peice entitled, "Now I Know There Are Miracles", seems to indicate that Marian married Cindy's Father but got rid of her, although I am not sure).
Oh my fucking God!! (this expression being used of course to mock the ever unholy Christian Adoption Industry.....) It's a miracle! A new and wonderful sales pitch, I mean reason to throw your newborn baby away and place her in the arms of strangers who might do Heaven knows what to her, while keeping Adoption Agencies happy wappy billion dollar industry! Gee. Why don't ALL natural parents do that. Why don't ALL fertile females give their newborn babies, a part of their own body, who they carried inside of them and protected for almost a year, up for Closed Adoption just in case one of them dies when their child is growing up. Helpless babies who don't even get to speak for themselves about what THEY want in their lives, and how they want them to be. Lucky Cindy. Her beemommie did and spared her going to her Real Father's only funeral.....just another spectacular and rational reason to love and support Adoption! Spare your child any unfortunate natural event that effects their family tree! Why keep your child and let them suffer everything from a stubbed toe to a death in the family when they can live in the the Fairytaleland of nothing ever bad happens to Adoptive Parents (or their "chosen" special" little bastards!) For everyone knows that a law was passed there from the book of Leave It To Beaver that no Adoptive Mother's hair is ever out of place or no Adoptive Father's cardigan ever has a lintball! No Adoptive Mother ever breaks a nail, or gets a divorce or drinks herself into oblivion. No Adoptees are ever molested by their Adopted Parents or left to fry to death because they were forgotten in the back seat of a hot car. Adoptees never fail tests, break their noses, get rejected by classmates or fall out of a tree. And of course no Adoptive Parent ever, EVER dies before the Adoptee is 18.......
No happy wappy Closed Adoption story would be complete without the rare being called the happy wappy Adoptive Mother. The little raspberry candy that holds the licorice stinger on the icing on top of the beemommy cupcake...
Who is so happy wappy that her "gift from God" has found her Real Mother and spends her days dreaming of the shopping trips, barbeque's and quilting's they can do together. Especially since Cindy says that she considers Fern her "Real Mother" and not Marian...Yes. Every Adoptive Mother I know fantasies about this. For they are full of the maturity and grace it takes to not lower themselves to being the control freak, petty, juvenile, self-absorbed, egotistical green eyed dragon ladies we all know most of them are...
Yes. Fern. Who I really hope is an evolved Adoptive Mother. How refreshing THAT would be...Granted, maybe there are a few Adoptees that had open-minded, loving and emotionally healthy Adoptive Mothers. And maybe there are a few Adoptees that didn't care that they were told they were NOT legally allowed to know their own parents names growing up, but they are the extreme minority and the ones not able to deal with this discrimination and child abuse the most, NOT the norm. And the Adoption Industry of course takes advantage of this fact and only goes to the media with happy wappy sappy Closed Adoption stories so they can con the public that THAT is what Closed Adoption IS. The media, thanks to the ACLU supporting The Birth Mother Privacy Lie refuses to ever let we Adoptees, BSE Mothers and the victimized Real Mothers of Open Adoption that are rightfully speaking out against a sinister system ever, ever have a voice in print or in film. Christia Crawford was the only exception to the shut them up campaign they have waged against us, but even she has been purposely ignored and downplayed over the years since "Mommie Dearest" was published and became a movie. And when we do speak out against the bigotry spewed at us "rotten little bastards" and refuse to be plastic commodities and demand we be treated like the human beings we are, we are deemed neurotic, difficult, angry and in need of psychiatric help because we won't cooperate in the make money for the Adoption Industry game we have been forced to play. If your digestive system is strong enough, go check out this Adoption promoting article, compliments of Adoption.com sometime this week if you are waiting in line at the supermarket, but whatever you do, DON'T buy it. It isn't worth you one hundred and 79 pennies. Pennies from Hell. Pennies that Cindy says she strangely kept finding all weekend, the first weekend she had heard from beemommie Marian. Coins she felt were being placed there by her Real Father in Heaven! Pennies that are sending the message I love you! Pennies that in all reality, due to the evil support Closed Adoption tone in this story send the message he is so glad he never got to see her face thanks to the wonderful Industry whose bank accounts were opened in hell........
As an Adoptee who has never had the pleasure of being able to meet my own Real Father for almost fifty years, this article further angers me as I feel Cindy has no right to assume her Real Father is all happy wappy in the afterlife that he missed the opportunity to ever be with her. Even if it would of only been for five years. No one either has a right to play God and interfere in the natural order of events in someone else's life. Whether it be nun or priest, social worker, PAP, Adoptive Parent or beemommie.
Man never had the right to take someone off of their path.
AND KNOWING ONE'S BLOODLINE AND BEING AN ACTIVE PART OF IT, IS EVERYONE'S PATH.
It is no supernatural occurrence either to come across pennies scattered around one's house. It happens to me all the time. It is stomach turning however to think pennies would represent a sentiment of I'm glad so many were spent to buy you out of your own life..........your own experiences.........your own heritage...........and a chance of a relationship with me..........
I am sure that where ever Cindy's Real Father is he knows now it was wrong to give her away. And that he lost the best gift he ever got. A gift that is priceless and that all the pennies on planet earth could never buy. Holding Cindy in his arms, listening to her laugh, bouncing her on his knee, knowing who his own child is...........and that she lost the most priceless gift ever given to her as well.......
I don't know about you, but I will be saving all my pennies for fruit and vegetables for the rest of the week. I think I'm sappy wappy cupcaked out...........
And yes, I am back. My nice little vacation from insults and lies interrupted by cheesy reading material. I realize I went out like a lamb due to Blogger Burnout but I have returned like a lion (and not a cowardly one at that)...so for all of you who thought you got rid of me....Fat chance. Dream On. I'm not going anywhere.......:)