I just learned of this through your site--I was called a 'bastard child' by my adopted grandfather and dealt with abuse from a young age where I was told that if I told what was happening to me, I'd be 'sent back' to the adoption agency - which wasn't even a possibility but it just shows the double whammy of adoption and dysfunction.
Not to mention that having a closed adoption means I don't even know basic things about my genetics that most everyone takes for granted these days (oh, my mother got this or that cancer and I was able to detect it early; or some disease runs in my family and I could adjust my lifestyle to counter-act because non-adopted people do this all the time. Not me. 50 years old. Still no idea. In therapy for what happened to me as an adoptee. I don't know this show but I am also, coincidentally, a television producer considering making a documentary about looking for my lineage. Who knows what I will find or if I will find anything, but birth records were just opened in Ohio this year, so I take it as a nominal vague sign that now could be the time.
I'm trying to find my daughter so she can know about her family what adoped people don't know I'm a person that love my children and want them to know the truth of what and who they are Tiara Denise williams I love you and Darrelle I love you to the day yall left I lothink apart me hope one day we will meet angin love your mom Linda
Yes it's very unfair to kid's they need to know we're they came from and how it happened I wish I could find mine now because what happened than I'm not that same person now some people do change my heart hurt without them
Lol this is really funny. I hope this wreaks Dunn's day as much as it made ours. Happy Halloween to you!
ReplyDeleteI just learned of this through your site--I was called a 'bastard child' by my adopted grandfather and dealt with abuse from a young age where I was told that if I told what was happening to me, I'd be 'sent back' to the adoption agency - which wasn't even a possibility but it just shows the double whammy of adoption and dysfunction.
ReplyDeleteNot to mention that having a closed adoption means I don't even know basic things about my genetics that most everyone takes for granted these days (oh, my mother got this or that cancer and I was able to detect it early; or some disease runs in my family and I could adjust my lifestyle to counter-act because non-adopted people do this all the time. Not me. 50 years old. Still no idea. In therapy for what happened to me as an adoptee. I don't know this show but I am also, coincidentally, a television producer considering making a documentary about looking for my lineage. Who knows what I will find or if I will find anything, but birth records were just opened in Ohio this year, so I take it as a nominal vague sign that now could be the time.
I'm trying to find my daughter so she can know about her family what adoped people don't know I'm a person that love my children and want them to know the truth of what and who they are Tiara Denise williams I love you and Darrelle I love you to the day yall left I lothink apart me hope one day we will meet angin love your mom Linda
ReplyDeleteYes it's very unfair to kid's they need to know we're they came from and how it happened I wish I could find mine now because what happened than I'm not that same person now some people do change my heart hurt without them
ReplyDeleteWishing you the best Linda and may peace find all of you...
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