The Scariest Thing That Could Happen To Anyone On Halloween........

To be continued......

Gone But Not Forgotten.......

Adorable Candace and her real Mother Angie Elmore

She knows why I didn't post a dedication to her last year.
On our birthday.
She understands injustice.
And paralyzing grief.....
She understands torment, immature vengeance and ruthless mocking that is executed on the helpless and the innocent.
By the sick, greedy and evil......
She knows all about not being able to trust those you should and the façade too many so called "professionals'" put on to fulfill their selfish and sinister agenda....
She knows all about a life that was lost when it never should of been.
And she would of loved him too......

For she would of had a way with him as I did and she would of happily done for him all that I did for him throughout his time on this earth.....

With smiles, with hugs, with tears...........

For Candace and I are one in the same.
In so many ways, in so much darkness, in so much irony, in so many tragedies
In so much abuse.......

And on our birthday this year she knows  how much harder this day will be for me.
For the rest of my life.
Until my last one.

For Candace was and always will be the love and the light that this planet and the (in)human race needs so badly.
So desperately.
And so was he........

A light that needs to penetrate through and obilviate both the left wing and right wing phonies who are destroying life the way it should be for so many loving beings in this world.
Phonies who twist truths and abhor forgiveness and the natural order of existence.
Phonies who refuse to shut up, go away and tap into the small amount of conscience they possess and morally expand it.
Phonies in the Medical Industry.
Phonies in the Adoption Industry.
Governmental phonies.
And phonies of course like the continually maddening and demonic Troy Dunn........

To be continued........

I've Got An F Word For You Too Troy Dunn.......

What could it be Troy, what could it be?......

I want everyone to please watch this video below.......

Of Troy Dunn's latest appearance on "The View" yesterday once again spewing his bile at and hatred towards Single Biological Fathers everywhere.

And witness the Flipflop game the Dark God of Adoption is now currently playing......





Do you see what he is doing?

How once again he takes both my words and the words of others that expressed for months the oppression and the unfairness of the Adoption System and the heartbreak of The Dusten Brown Tragedy to try to redeem himself.....

As he puts himself  right smack in the middle of another Natural Parent vs Adoptive Parent war.

Where of course he claims he was ASKED to be (yeah right, I think paid to be is more accurate.....)

For after being outed for the defamatory remarks he made about Dusten and the outright lies he told about him to try to paint him black, to try to make him look not only like a deadbeat Dad but an all around bad person, Dunn has now associated himself and his warped viewpoints with a Biological Father who he can, being the sinful judgmental person he is, trash from here to hell.........

To pacify himself with after the utter fool he made out of himself a year ago.

To be worshipped and exalted once again!!

To anoint himself as righteous despite the fact he and the media along with hysterics in the general public bash John McClure in the most superficial way possible.....
At face value due to mistakes he made in the past (and without even trying to look into his heart now) despite the fact that everyone on earth has made mistakes too.......

Including Troy Dunn......

But alas, that does not matter to Bishop Troy Boy........

No forgiveness from him at all......

Just condemnation......... and too be quite blunt I am surprised Troy Dunn doesn't speak out against Christ forgiving the dying thieves who were hung on the crosses next to him as well....

I mean HOW awful right?
To......
Excuse rather than rip apart?
Understand rather than condemn?
Punish rather than free?
Be human rather than inhumane?..........

None of the crimes John McClure committed make him a bad Parent.

Although Dunn is already hurling boulders and spreading misinformation just like he did pertaining to Dusten Brown's text's and intentions.

McClure was never involved with drugs.

Nor did he rob any bank himself or transport HIS firearm across state lines.

The unholstered gun was his girlfriend's but since it was in HIS car he got convicted.

He was never abusive to his daughter either and yes he loved his daughter despite the fact that his Holiness subverts him to merely a "sperm donor" which I have to tell you made my stomach painfully turn as I heard him say that.

And I have to wonder what kind of deal with the devil Troy Dunn made to be involved in this case......

For the dark ironies just flabbergast me.....

A little girl whose Adoptive Parents are saying deserves to have a hearing to determine who she wants to live with when those who support the Adoption Industry including Troy Dunn couldn't of cared less about Veronica Brown having one.

A little girl whose Adoptive Parents are claiming was screaming that she didn't want to go live with her Father after so many times it was pointed out that Veronica Brown had uttered the same screams about being forced to leave her Father......

And Troy Dunn putting SO much emphasis on Sonya having lived with the Hodgins for 7 years and because of that it is so wrong to take her away from them but totally ignoring the fact that Veronica lived with her Father and Step Mother for two years and had totally bonded with them.  

Not to mention loved  them dearly........

I realize of course that Sonya would be uncomfortable at first, going to a new place, although she very well could of been over exaggerating the situation at her Dad's house because I am quite certain that DSS would of checked out the conditions she was living in after the phone conversation she had with her Adoptive Mother went viral due to Kim pushing it.

And if she was taken from her Dad's home due to an unhealthy environment, well obviously that news would of been all over the "Bring Sonya Home" Facebook Page by now which of course it isn't......

It also seems obvious to me that she was taken rather quickly because of fear of flight from the court's perspective as the Hodgins might of permanently left the state or the country with her during a visit, an issue no one on their side of the fence wants any light shed on.

Don't get me wrong though, I am not doubting that Sonya loves her Adoptive Family and misses them but I am sure she also loves her Biological Family by now as well.

But the bottom line is, just like in the Veronica Brown case, her Father did NOT want to give her up for Adoption and since John McClure MADE his daughter as I stated in many prior posts concerning all that happened to Dusten Brown, he is the one whose rights should be honored first.

All Biological Fathers rights should be honored first and that is an absolute NO BRAINER (as long as he is not abusive to his child).

And I have to tell you I am so tired of the which came first the chicken or the egg attitude when looking at these kind of cases because I think we all KNOW which came first.......

Yet Self Appointed Father Of The Year Troy Dunn, who in my opinion shows what a hypercritical and needledick of a Parent he really is in the numerous videos he has made of himself interacting with his kids, one in particular where he is anything but kind to and patient with his oldest son as they bake Christmas cookies (which hmm......has mysteriously has vanished from public view......) seems to think the only good and worthy Fathers are the MARRIED ones......

A decoy belief of course to keep stable the billion dollar Adoption Industry that his religion is directly involved in.

His arrogance however is what his ego is directly involved in as he compulsively repeats that "I AM a Dad" while he flaunts the pats on the back he loves to give himself despite the fact that his actions scream to me that more often than not, he is not really a good one......

Because you know, they say a picture is worth a thousand words and take a look at this one that Dunn plasters all over his Facebook Page.......

Yes Troy Dunn loves his children SO much that he cherishes this image of his family with the top of two of his sons heads cut off whilst he sits dead center in the middle of them all, hogging the camera posing like he is the most important public figure in the entire world and he's totally in love with himself......

Yup, that's a GOOD Parenting style and a GOOD Christian role model for ya!.........

Gee, didn't anyone ever tell Troy Dunn that gross self-absorption is NOT a positive family value?

And it also goes without saying that holding a double standard is not being a good Christian role model either for I wonder still, like I have said many times before if Troy Dunn would so willingly force his son or daughter to give away his own grandchild if that child was conceived out of wedlock and would come into the world via unmarried Parents.

But alas, Troy Dunn would never even try to put himself in someone else's shoes.

And besides he hasn't the time!

Between vying for destroying the relationships between Unwed Biological Parents and their children and indubitably trying to keep them apart for decades on tacky talk shows and then turning around and constantly posting ridiculous little tidbits from his new book "Family:The Good F Word" which he claims he wrote to help family members fix their relationships, he is a very busy man!

I imagine he must be a vey tired man too......

As being a complete and total hypocrite all day long can be quite exhausting......

So can spending all your time riding the Flipflop seesaw.

Although I confess Flipflop is NOT the F word I mentioned I have in mind for Troy Dunn.

But it isn't the most obvious one either.......


To be continued.........



DUE TO A TECHNICAL GLITCH THIS POST HAD TO BE REPUBLISHED ON JULY 19th.

NO WRITTEN WORDS WITHIN THIS POST MAY BE COPIED OR REPRODUCED.


Photo Credits:
"Family:The Good F Word"
Bird Street Books

Dunn Family:
Troy The Locator Facebook

If We Want Change We Have To Stop Those Who Don't Want Change :(TNT Facebook Page......

"How does your soul feel Troy".....
I want to throw up......
(He HAS a soul?...Really?)
Does he ever wonder how Veronica's soul and Dusten's soul feel after not being able to see each other, hug each other for months now?......

I hadn't heard of this woman before who is interviewing Troy should be DUNN, Valder Beebe, but it is obvious she is just another Kool-Aid drinking Christian as I do know after Googling her that she has her own Ministry......
Like I also know and will repeat that most of the comments on Troy Dunn's Facebook page are made up by his paid employees along with other family members and brainwashed Bloodline Bashing Mormons.....

I am surrounded by liars of late.
Others in Corporate America who have their unsavory cronies abuse me when I call them out on malpractice they have committed.....
I should be SO be used to this by now but I still cry, I still shake, I still feel sick, I still go numb, I still feel violated, I am still enraged.....
This is how the unregulated Capitalism system and the abuse of power within it works though and not just in Adoption.

If we want to win THIS fight however, end the lies about Adoptees, end the bogus mindsets that the Industry tries to brainwash society with, end the continual enraging comments posted on stories about reunions and the feelings Adoptees have concerning our roots then we have to get rid of the venomous spiders that weave these webs of deception in the first place.....

I have said it 100 times, I have said it so much in the last few months maybe others are sick of hearing it, but I am going to say it again because if we don't start to obviate the source of the discrimination against us then we will continue to be overshadowed and drowned out.
SO HERE GOES....
PLEASE GO TO THE TNT FACEBOOK PAGE AND TELL THEM YOU WANT APB WITH TROY DUNN CANCELLED.

Yes, some people have done this already, a couple of weeks ago but new comments vying for a second season of this atrocity of a TV show keep popping up and no one can argue that he does not deserve a one of them.

We cannot run away like a wounded pup with our tails between our legs because of the big bad Capobiancos and the rigging of the courts to support the Adoption Industry, nor can we just let exploiters like Dr. Phil and Troy Dunn go on happily in their careers.

Yes, this is an ugly mess and yes we are at a huge disadvantage but like in the fable the Tortoise and The Hare, Troy Dunn got cocky and stalemated himself due to his own arrogance.....

And if we want to win the race we need him out of it once and for all.
This isn't going to happen however if we are off licking our wounds so please everyone keep on fighting.

Even though it hurts,
And I know it hurts.
We are forced to run on a broken leg.....
Mangled by the very people who want us to lose.
In a race created so we would be set up to....

But like the other turtles of the world it is our hatred for corruption and oppression that will finally bring us to the finish line AS LONG AS WE STAY IN THE RACE UNTIL THE BITTER END.....

Troy Dunn Lies To Tulsa World! And Then Pulls A Capobianco On His Facebook Page......



I want YOU to kiss my ass!

And for a while this charlatan was able to get people to do that.....

Although as I have said many times before, my gut instinct made me leery of him only to have the truth about him come shining through in the saddest way possible.

A happy, healthy, loved little girl who was ripped away from her Father screaming I don't want to go! I don't want to go!
An innocent child who never hurt anyone in her entire life, forced to lose her family and then forced to endure trauma, grief and separation anxiety that no child should ever have to feel......

Harmful emotions that Troy Dunn had the nerve to imply was a "Victory!!!!" for Matt and Melanie Pyschobianco.
And Nightlife Christian Adoptions too.....

But the jig is up, despite the fact that Troy Dunn keeps grasping for the life preserver as most of us are gleefully watching and want his career to go down like the Titanic....
A ship he has proved, that if he had sailed on, he would of happily hobnobbed with the Masters of The Universe not caring less about the third class passengers (us) who would be locked behind iron bars below as water rose above our heads while he paid off an officer to procure himself a seat on a lifeboat.

Because truly we aren't JUST second class citizens in this country,  we ARE third....
Not "the better half"......
as we all remember Cal, (and most likely Troy Dunn's idol) so snidely barked in John Cameron's blockbuster flm.....

And the American Indians have been thrown on the same rat infested lower deck with us......
By the Troy Dunn's of the world......
Who have cockamamie and cruel ideas of how we should be "dealt with" and treated....

I left a comment over at Tulsa World where Troy Dunn made his third pathetic attempt this week not to get thrown into the sea Bruce Ismay style......(another one of his idols no doubt....)
Knowing full well that what happened to Veronica is partly his own damn fault but caring more about saving his own arrogant behind and begging the general public to do that for him.

I meant to comment as The Improper Adoptee on that forum but somehow I posted as the Anonymous Adoptee, a mistake I made and forgot to fix.
I first typed in Anonymous Citizen, because that is how I feel I am viewed in this country, but then decided to use the name of this blog instead.
Oh well....

And I had heard about this article via the FATHERS OF LOSS (TO ADOPTION) Facebook page which then lead me to the Boycott Troy The Locator Facebook page where a very smart cookie named Dana Carter points out how in lieu of almost hitting the bottom of the ocean Troy Dunn is being once again, as I have said a hundred times before, a complete and total hypocrite.

He also obviously thinks we are absolute morons and don't remember all his stinging words throughout the Dusten and Veronica Brown Tragedy either......

 

 

Yeah Troy.....we'll all just ignore this travesty of a discrepancy SO YOU can remain a STAR!!!!

"If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity and the good in him is hardly accepted".
Charles Horton Cooley

Awesome quote and so true yet....
The man and his character have MERGED now however and are nothing less than one big visible to the public pile of horseshit......

Another poster on The Boycott Troy the Locator Facebook page so accurately pointed out as well that if he was truly neutral as he is now claiming in order to get more ratings for "APB with Troy Dunn", that no one is really watching, he would not of ever said that Dusten losing his court case to live with his own flesh and blood was a "Victory"!!!.....

It absolutely kills me too that this cocky putz thinks HE knows what is better for Native American children than the Native Americans themselves.....

But like the funny little man in the great old Seals and Croft's song, who tries to build his house on sand, Troy Dunn's judgmental aura has caused the faulty dwelling he has created to come tumbling down around him.







And has that made him humble?  Has that made him apologetic?
No, it has only made him slither tighter within his sleazy snake skin....

For Troy Dunn thinks he can do no wrong and that he has a right to criticize every Single Father on planet earth, Fathers that in his delusional opinion can NEVER match HIM....

Wait a minute!
Whoa ho!
What is this?
WHAT did Troy Dunn thinks he's Almighty just say?.....
UNPLANNED PREGNANCY?
That Troy does NOT seem very happy about yet tries to smooth over to save face....

In May of 2012 however Veronica Brown WAS very happy living with her Father Dusten and the rest of her Natural family.

And it really can NOT be said enough, that if Dusten Brown did NOT want or had abandoned Veronica as Troy Dunn is hellbent on pushing, THEN DUSTEN NEVER WOULD OF FOUGHT SO LONG AND HARD FOR HER THROUGH THE COURT SYSTEM.

Ah DUH..................Troy.

And yes, Veronica was apparently not a planned child, but neither are many, maybe the majority of people in the world, both past and present.

But it is perfectly fine according to Troy Dunn to announce that his 8th child was an "accident" and to even make A DIRTY AND BEYOND CRUDE JOKE about naming him Trojan, that would really hurt this kid if he ever read that as a teenager or an adult, but it is NOT okay for another man to want to take into his arms his own unplanned newborn infant to protect and raise....
And revel in the wonderful surprise of having been blessed with this most precious gift that life has given him.

Do as I say not as I do.....

An evaluation?!!!
AFTER Veronica lived WITH HER FATHER AND THE REST OF HER WONDERFUL FAMILY FOR TWO YEARS AND WAS AS HAPPY AS PIE?!

 

 

Yes.....
Little Veronica looks SO abused....
She looks SO unhappy.....
In SO much danger....
She was in such a FRIGHTENING situation, living within the natural order of life, being cherished by her own non-dysfunctional kin....

What IS truly frightening however, is the thought that anyone EVER listened to Troy Dunn and his continual lies in the first place.....
And the fact that he concreted those lies through his bogus PI status (he isn't even licensed!) that he feigns to be privy to non existent information to bring down Dusten Brown.

And how he has abused the power he had to further kick him in the gut after he so hostilely threw him to the ground.....

WHAT text messages you derelict?

There were NO text messages as Christy Maldonado so CONVEINENTLY said she deleted them and Troy Dunn so maniacally twisted the one that did exist into feelings and intentions that Dusten NEVER HAD as he only signed his rights over to her so she and Veronica could get military benefits if Dusten died in Iraq....

I am SO tired of nosy, bossy, bully Troy Dunn, who thinks he has a right to be smack in the middle of everybody else's business.....

As nosy as the bossy, bully Adoption Industry that think they have a RIGHT TO KNOW EVERYTHNG ABOUT AN ADOPTEE'S BIOLOGICAL FAMILY BUT THE ADOPTEE DOES NOT......

And buyer beware because the examples of Troy Dunn's hypocrisy are endless.

Which happily allows me to go on for hours and hours and hours of course pointing out what a used car salesman Troy Dunn really is......

Because there is SOOOO much out there.

Including his brand new most recent pitch to continue to sell himself by mooching off of other well known celebrities.......

Like a tick on a dog, Troy Dunn now knowing full well that he IS considered a failure not only as "compassionate reuniter", but also as a human being, wants his career to continue on by living through the fame of well known talk show hosts......

And if Ellen won't make him a co-host, then hey, what the hell!!!

Let's keep him in the spotlight and the money by renaming  Kelly & Michael to Kelly Michael & Dunn Incorporated!

If that doesn't work, well (and I like this idea MUCH better) maybe he can be a regular guest on Hell's Kitchen "LOCATING" a missing bag of radishes or a misplaced slotted spoon.......

This. Man. Has. NO. Class. At. All.....

Just like the Capobianco's........

As he solicits himself to the level of grotesqueness while throwing himself a pity party to boot.....

Boo Hoo Troy....
Aw...you look so sad (like you DESERVE too)
Yes, we should ALL feel so sorry for him...
Like the whole wide world should of felt soooo sorry for Matt and Melanie the baby thieves......

We should all CARE so much.....
And Christians should continue to incorporate your FOUL UN-Christian behavior within their hearts and within their Churches.....

In my last post I stated that I felt Troy Dunn has sociopathic tendencies....
Now I am starting to wonder if he is a Coke head as well.....

Because his inconsistencies are not only completely maddening, they are nauseatingly embarrassing too.....
And so is his utter lack of logic.....

Seasoned by his intense sense of self love that in the face of truthful criticism gives him no second thought about his hateful attitudes, in any bloody way, shape or form.

Which leads me to conclude that I think this man needs help......

Because it is overwhelmingly obvious that he is addicted to something that fogs his brain which disallows him to see how wrong it is for him to continue to use the media to make a fool out of himself  in order to keep him in a place that he NEVER deserved to be in the first place.....

Self-pity is our drug of choice.....

See the funny little man
Huffing and puffing and digging the sand
In his search for something to build
Perhaps a church on the side of a hill
Little does he know
That he's working in vain
When rain comes the hill
Will come sliding down and will not hold.
See the funny little man
Running and hiding and flailing his hands
Asking himself what could have gone wrong
For he has worked hard the whole day long
See the funny little man
Small in his size when compared to the land
When will he grow up, can time wait until
The funny little man can see beyond the hill.....

To be continued.......