The Scariest Thing That Could Happen To Anyone On Halloween........

To be continued......

Meet A REAL Locator Who Successfully Reunites Adoptees For Free.......

Not everyone wants to exploit others.
Or make a career out of ripping people off through overcharging.
Some people can naturally empathize with those who feel loss.
Instead of feigning understanding to try to carry off a sinister agenda......

This story touched my heart.
And I think Faith Slayter will touch yours too.
Because she is a TRUE angel.....
And unlike Troy Dunn, NOT one from hell.....






Footnote:
With the exception of announcing that APB with Troy Dunn has been cancelled which I am sure is enviable I am going to be taking a break from blogging for painful personal reasons that I have discussed briefly in some of my posts.
I am also postponing The Flying Monkey Awards until the end of May of this year or perhaps even later.
Stay strong everyone.
And stay well....

Keep Your Baby Pie......

Thank you "Waitress" for being the best movie I have ever seen that exposes some of the lies told by those by who profit from Adoption without even being a movie about Adoption in the first place.....
Yeah, I know.
This movie came out 12 years ago but I just saw it last week.
Better late than never to see such a beautiful wake up call bonding scene with a brand new Mother ....

Maybe I should of entitled this post You'll Fall In Love With Your Baby Pie....
or You Won't Be Able To Live Without Your Baby Pie....

IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND PREGNANT AND YOU CONTACT AN ADOPTION AGENCY BEFORE YOU GIVE BIRTH AND THEN DECIDE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR BABY AFTERWARDS, YOU WILL BE SERVED A HUGE HELPING OF WE ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BABY AWAY FROM YOU AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT PIE......

THE BITTER TASTE OF THAT PIE IS VERY SIMILAR TO THE TOXIC RECIPE THE ADOPTION INDUSTRY HAS WHIPPED UP FOR ADOPTEES WHO WANT OUR ADOPTION RECORDS OPENED AND OUR ORIGINAL BIRTH CERTIFICATES GIVEN TO US WITHOUT THE INSULT OF CONDESCENDING MIND GAMES.

It is available on the We Love To Oppress and Abuse People To Make Money Daily Special Menu at Georgia's Pie Shack located in the majority of states in the USA and is appropriately named Just Shut Up And Take It Pie....

So sing along everyone!
And Adoption Agencies lie
They'll rip you all apart
They'll stab you in the heart
Right in the middle.....

The Duggar's Want To Adopt. I Shit You Not.....

Photo Credit: Kris Connor

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME?!!
Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar really think some poor little child from Asia is going to benefit by being thrown into an already over populated family where I doubt any of the children get enough attention and they have to wear color coded clothes just so their Parents can keep track of them as it is?
Michelle claims she and Jim Bob know so much about Adoption because they have friends who have Adopted. But I bet they don't know a damn thing about how WE feel.
And I feel angry that there is yet another couple that is supporting an unbelievably greedy Industry that still tries to keep us legally Oppressed through Closed Adoption and the lack of laws for Adoptees in Open Adoption to have an ongoing connection with their Biological Families.
All their God this, and God that makes me sick, as so called Christians continue to support a system designed by a freekin PEDOPHILE that they want to claim is God's will.
Well here is a message to the Duggars from an Adoptee.
And to all Christians that want to Adopt and think that they are such experts on the subject...
It is God's will to have you ABOLISH THE ANTI-CHRISTIAN, CLOSED ADOPTION RECORD SYSTEM, FIGHT TO OPEN SEALED FILES IN EVERY STATE WHERE THEY ARE NOT AND FORGIVE ALL WOMEN WHO CONCEIVE OUT OF WEDLOCK AND PUNISH THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN NO MORE.
Instead of Adopting a child from another country, why don't you help the children in your own country by making CLOSED ADOPTION ILLEGAL ONCE AND FOR ALL THE WAY IT SHOULD BE.
And help draft and push bills to create laws to end the abuse due to Open Adoption gone wrong.
Why don't you start focusing on the children you already have to and make sure they are getting all the support and hugs they need.
I don't see how they could with as many little ones as the Duggars have and one more from China is obviously not going to make that situation ANY better.
Here is a Preview Video of The Duggars 19 Kids And Counting In Asia, where Michelle talks about Adopting yet seems rather impatient with one child of her own.
Someone needs some sleep and some alone time, NOT to add yet another charge to her family.....
Just like we need The Adoption Records Opened YESTERDAY...

Kathleen Foley Has No Class........

Despite the fact that I was raised in Closed Adoption, I don't need anyone to tell me I am British.
I just KNOW I am and always have.
When I was in my 20's I was told I looked like an "English model" and I have been obsessed with England since I was 8 years old.
Even to the point, that my idea of fun with a childhood friend was to walk around the center of town and talk with a British accent to see if the adults we spoke to would really believe we were from London.
But hey, we were 10 and 11 years old......

When I was in my 20's I was also raped.
Not the kind of perpetrator climbs through a window and puts a knife to my neck rape.
I knew him.
I was hanging around with him.
And I shouldn't of been because quite bluntly, he was a mean screwed up asshole.
A mean screwed up asshole who liked to drink and take speed.
The latter of which I wasn't aware of before he assaulted me......
I remember him throwing me on his bed and trying to push him off of me and then trying to wiggle my way out from under him.
I remember being furious and terrified at the same time.
I remember screaming outloud when he was biting my breasts and I remember begging him to stop because I couldn't handle the pain.
And I will never forget his arrogant attitude......
And when I finally got away from him an hour later and out of his dark, crappy basement apartment  I drove away from that house like a bat out of hell.
Fifteen minutes later though, I pulled over in a parking lot because I was still shaking.
I wasn't far from home.
But I just wanted to sit there.
I lowered my face onto my hands that were clenching the steering wheel.
I shut my eyes that never shed tears because I was still in so much shock.
My chest was stinging, my chest was burning and then I noticed my chest felt all wet.
When I looked down my pretty black sequined sweater that he pushed up and wouldn't let me pull back down, I saw that my chest was also entirely covered with blood.
I have never told too many people about this.
I never went to the police either because I was not feeling good about myself at that time nor feeling very strong and I did not want an Attorney in my face badgering me that I "wanted it".
Because that is exactly what the mean screwed up asshole said to me when I was begging him to stop ripping me apart with his teeth. 
Looking back now though, I wish I had gone to the nearest Emergency Room......
20 years later however, one night, just for the hell of it, I Googled my rapist's name and was led to a website where I found out he had been in jail for 3 years.
The charge did not surprise me.
Assault and battery.
Oh HOW HIM.
Of course he wasn't in prison for raping me, yet in my wounded psyche, and in my wounded heart, I told myself at least he had paid for it.
Somewhat.
I consoled myself envisioning him in a prison of frustration due to being completely controlled like the prison of submission he had thrown me into......
Which still made me squirm every single time I thought about how he treated me.
I convinced myself that part of his sentence was for how I was victimized......
And I have had to leave it at that, despite the fact that I will hate this man and still wish I had him arrested for all of eternity......

Those feelings were particularly intense one rainy Saturday afternoon when I was watching a movie on Lifetime tv called "Speak".
An incredible film about a high school girl that gets raped the night of a party she was so excited to go to at the end of her 9th grade year.
I felt her wounds the entire two hours and I could relate to how such a violent and infuriating significant event in her life had changed her so much.
She had been an outgoing girl, Melinda, but when she went back to school as a 10th grader, she became isolated and withdrawn, wanting no social life whatsoever.
She would not talk to anyone.
She could not talk to anyone.
And she told no one about what happened to her those four months before.
For the entire school year, until she met with this monster again and let her justified rage out on him....
By fighting back.
And then finally, in the safety of her Mother's arms, she could speak once again.
And began to speak.
About being raped......

I really don't want to make this post a long one.
On Monday morning, when I began to read Daily Mail that I subscribe to to get my fill of UK gossip I, like millions of other people saw the article about Kathleen Hoy Foley's despicable latest stunt towards her wonderful daughter Elaine Penn.
Who I do not know personally but on whose blog I've made a comment or two over the years as I've always liked her posts and because her story broke my heart.
Mail led me to the NY Daily News article about this horrid woman which led to my Twinning's becoming cold and my lemon cranberry scones completely ignored.
I could not eat or drink anything because both articles made my stomach turn.
After a couple of sighs, and a few eye rolls, I braced myself to read the comments.
Much to my surprise however, many of the comments stated that Foley was not raped at all, and that Elaine's Father wanted to marry her and raise Elaine....
And one poster in particular, who I have not heard of before, a woman named Priscilla Sharp, who stated very important facts about this story that should NOT be overlooked.
Facts like......
Kathleen wanted to keep Elaine but her Parents forced her to give her baby away, and they slammed the front door in Elaine's Father's face because he wanted to do the right thing.
I know full well, that any man who rapes a woman wants nothing to do with any poor child conceived from that act.
I mean talk about DNA evidence....
And I also know that there is no way in hell, an organization as corrupt and abusive as Catholic Charities would EVER give any information to an Adoptee about his or her own life.

Kathleen Hoy Foley's accusation stating they did is not only an outright lie, it is an EMBARRASSMENT and that is exactly how she should feel for spewing it.

But the most important thing I know, is that it is not any child's fault how they end up coming into this world.
And be it rape or no rape, no child should EVER be blamed, despised or scapegoated because they came to be.....

I never got pregnant after the mean screwed up asshole forced himself on me.
But I can imagine how I would of felt if I had.
And I do know IF I had, I never would of felt it was the baby's fault.
If anything, I would of felt so sad, that any human being would of been created out of so much hate.
Hate the mean screwed up asshole had towards me.....
For no good reason at all....

I also know as well that NO ONE CAN STALK THEIR OWN MOTHER.
That word does NOT and will NEVER logically apply to this union.
Even in a case of rape.
For the child IS A VICTIM TOO.
And any Mother who fails to see this and instead whores the victim status, the way Kathleen Hoy Foley has, acting in the immature, prima donna, self-centered and attention hogging way that she is, does not deserve any sympathy whatsoever.
And I have absolutely none for her.

Because it is her attitude, one that completely lacks any grace or maturity whatsoever, that Kathleeen Foley has towards her daughter that has hurt her, not Elaine in any way.
Elaine  Penn has done nothing wrong.
Elaine did NOT rape her. (If she was really raped at all).
And Elaine deserves as much respect as a human being with feelings as Foley obviously wants for herself  which is beyond apparent the way she runs with her poor me agenda which at this point makes her look more like she is a paid off advertising campaign for Closed Adoption then a victim of a barbaric crime.

Which is another reason why Foley still continues to make my stomach turn.
For it is unforgivable  how she has perverted her bogus need for silence, which she has now morphed into a duct tape atomic bomb she is now trying to throw at the Open Records Movement.....

And it completely blows my mind that this maniac thinks she even has the right to say she wants Adoption Records to stay closed for ALL Adoptees.
Why, because she says she was raped?
Well, I didn't rape her.
And neither did any other Adoptee.
Yet every Adoptee on earth should be denied their heritage because she did not want to meet her daughter who she claims was conceived from that rape?...
Yes, that is SO logical.
Nauseatingly narcissistic too.....
Why don't we make an equally oppressive law as well, that no man can EVER date a woman because he may rape her.
Hell, let's just make one that states that no man can ever have sex again, because Kathleen Hoy Foley claims she was raped.....

Despite the fact that she  went on to have relations and give birth to two daughters who she raised, in the mist of being so traumatized, as her two books, her interviews and her websites indicate.
Which in my opinion counteracts all her well planned out hysteria.

PEOPLE WHO BLAME OTHERS FOR WHAT THEY ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HAVE NO CLASS AT ALL.
This can never be said enough.
They do however have a serious psychological problem that needs to be fixed, so they do not hurt anyone else.
And I just wish this whacky woman would be legally barred from speaking in social media until some way IS found to help her.

In all these years, I have yet to name the mean screwed up asshole who raped me on any social media.
I could type his name out right now if I wanted to.
I could put up 10 blogs about him, go on every male bashing website on the internet and tell the whole world what he did to me, call 15 news stations or write 45 damning comments on the Daily Mail...
But I choose not to.
Because quite frankly, I don't want to go there.
Because it still hurts too much to talk about it.
And I don't need the exhausting drama either.....
For just like Melinda in "Speak", I understand the stillness that overcomes one after a storm cloud has darkened life.
I also know too, that there are many mean people on the internet, and when one does talk about an abuse that has been thrust on them, they are abused even further by letting it all out.
By those who want to hide the evil they have done.
And who never ever wanted their victim to speak out in the first place......

Forgotten Faces.......

They want us to forget that Adoption is about US.
But we won't.
We can't.
And we don't.....
But why should we?
That is like asking us to forget about ourselves.
And walk this earth invisible.
Would THEY?.......






"Why me?"
"Because you saw me when I was invisible".......
The Princess Diaries

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NOPE.  Has NEVER happened. There is not one documented case of any Adoptee  EVER hurting his or her Biological Mother and there never will be. That is just another vicious and immature LIE from money hungry Chri$tian Clergy and The Adoption Indu$try who want the TRUTH about how they abuse us covered up.... Happy November everyone. New month, same bullshit.....

Mormons are Monsters.......

Yes, I'm back....
For the first of two frightening posts....
Tis the season people....
Even though the Adoption Indu$try scares people all year long.....

It has always been said that money is the root of all evil and although I beg to differ with that statement, I will be the first to say that money always has and always will have the potential to create undeniable evil in man.
Not to mention inexcusable immaturity........

And for a group of people who claim to be Christian, it amazes me that the way they earn, use and spend money they can NOT see that their funds come straight from the fires of hell....

If you are in the mood for a terrifying Halloween tale,  please read on and prepare to get chills all over your body as you learn about how Mormon Adoption Agencies ARE PAYING OFF PREGNANT YOUNG WOMEN TO CUT THE BABY'S FATHER OUT OF HIS OWN CHILD'S LIFE FOREVER.......

These young naïve women have already been brainwashed by the greedy, male chauvinistic pig Mormons that a single woman is not capable of raising her own flesh and blood, despite the fact that widows have been doing this for centuries.

And anyone with half a brain knows that one does not have to be married in order to protect their child, love their child or provide for their child.

The latter of which is what friends and family are for AND WHAT CHURCHES ARE SUPPOSED TO DO THROUGH CHARITABLE DONATIONS if a Mother ever needed help financially......

Yet all Mormons seem to care about is how THEY are doing financially and investing some of their funds to create even larger funds by ensuring Adoption$ where no man will be able to fight for the right to his child that HE created.....

How many times does this HAVE TO BE SAID?

No one on this damn planet has ever had a right to buy or sell any other human being NOR has anyone the right to keep children from the parents who want to raise them so they can receive blessings from the UnHoly Buck.

I am not alone in my opinion.....

"And, as I never tire of pointing out, the ironic purpose of all these laws that remove the father from the adoption process is to force adoption on children who don’t need to be adopted".

This LDS nightmare and other spot on quotes from the author of this heart stopping article continues here....

And join me next time as I rightfully bash two other Monsters.

Jerry and Dottie Sandusky......

Who never have or never will need ANY Halloween costume as they are natural born vampires who sucked the living souls out of disadvantaged children everywhere.....

Zara Phillips Provides The Best Commercial Break

I could put on my blog, until the final part of my series Adoptees And The Media is posted next week, as her wonderful film illustrates the RIGHT way to discuss Adoptees in the media......(and since now too I am her #1 fan..:) You rock Zara....

New Year Sentiments........

All of our oppressors....
our oppossers...
you can call us what you want.....
dirty little bastards, ungrateful little brats, village idiots, "dyfuctionalists", Quasimodo's, bundles of sinful flesh, dogs on a leash, puppets on a string....
but we are not any of these things....
we are people just like you, despite the fact that you want to own us....
control us...
destroy us....
and to that I say....in 2010 (yes, THAT's RIGHT 2010 not 1510 where the Closed Adoption Record mindset is from) the fight continues on....
YOU wouldn't take it (WHAT would YOU say, all you NCFA AP's, Social Workers, Adoption Agency employees, ministers and priests who if YOU were told you could not have your families heritage and your OBC...I shutter to think!) and there is no way in hell we should either.
Happy New Year everyone....
may this be the year the USA finally comes out of her catatonic state.......:)
Blast this video loud, maybe it will help shake things up a bit!

WE MUST NEVER FORGET. Candace Newmaker.....

Today is Candace Newmaker's birthday. She would of turned 20.
But Adoption murdered her. Adoption has murdered me in many ways to....
And her Adoptive Mother's weapon of choice?
Attachment Therapy.
And Candace's killer?
Satan's little helper walks free as I type this....

Look at her face. You can see the evil emanating from it as her laughter continues to haunt all of us. Adoptees and Real Mothers alike....

Today is my birthday. Or that is what I have been told. Considering the fact that CHS lied to me for 25 years about not knowing the time of day I was born, which was illegal btw, why should I believe them about what day I was born...
especially since this Christian Adoption Agency vies for Closed Records and the employees there lie about THEMSELVES and say they are Adopted when they most certainly are not.
A game they first started playing with me in the early 80's long before they took it to the internet.
(Like an Adoption Agency would EVER hire an Adoptee and let them ten feet near any other Adoptee's sealed files, teach them how to search for another Adoptee's "birthmother" current whereabouts, or let them see OBC's with "Illegitimate" or "bastard" stamped across them. Yeah RIGHT....)
It is a well known fact that Christian Clergy, Adoption Agencies, and many a power abusing, immature AP changed the real birthdate of an Adopted infant to a fake date which appears on the Adoptees AMC (Amended Birth Certificate).
This was done for different reasons to serve well all those involved in the child's Adoption EXCEPT the child of course, even though all the true facts that were altered are a very needed form of security and stability for the child's sense of self and identity in every stage of the child's life.
It is also symptomatic of the underlying disrespect that is spewed at Adopted children every day by bigoted, money grubbing and self-pitying adults.
Lying outright to some Adoptees about when they came into this world aids the Church's need to punish we dirty little bastards for the rest of our lives to.
You know since priests, ministers, cardinals, bishops and nuns find Christ's order to forgive each others sins and do nothing at all to punish them so repugnant and all...
this trickery and deception also aids the Adoption Agencies to be able to give their infertile clients more bang for their buck by letting them buy having the power of God since they can't buy making God let them conceive their own child.
So THEY decide when the baby they are going to Adopt was born....
what month, what day, what year which doesn't even let the Adoptee have the the control to know how old they really are!
Which NO person has any right to do to another person.
And it goes without saying, that this isn't even an act of decent parenting either. It is an act of OWNERSHIP.
And there is a hell of a big difference between the rightful authority Natural Parents exhibit with their children and the ownership mentality some Adoptive Parents execute.
Telling a child they Adopt that they are a Gemini when they are really a Scorpio also helps to keep a Natural Mother and child separate forever as they cannot find each other when they do start searching....
the true self-serving motive for why some Adoptive Mothers lobbied Congressmen in 1951 to get Adoption Records sealed in the first place....
And why a self-centered Adoptive Parent, Herbert H. Lehman closed Adoption records to Adoptees  in 1936 to begin with.....
As a psychic, I know that Candace Newmaker is not at peace.
*(Please see UPDATE at the end of this post).
She has not passed to a better place and her spirit bitterly lingers in the realm that keeps her on this earth. She is angry. And I don't blame her. For she never felt loved thanks to The Adoption and Psychiatric Industries.
And she wasn't....
A lot of Adoptees raised in Closed Adoption don't feel God is love either, thanks to Pro-Closed Record Christians and the condescending act of HUMAN BEINGS given as "gifts" to Adoptive Parents, the new age mindset amongst Christian Adopters and those who think Adoption is a religion...(Oh THROW UP)
And of course how the Church and many AP's try to make us hate ourselves...(feel shame, whip! whip! feel shame, whip! whip!)
We know damn well that sealed files have nothing to do with any form of love...
Hate, control, mockery and discrimination, yeah. But love? Pfft....
Candace didn't feel to loved wrapped up in that heavy itchy blue blanket either.
Fighting for her life, her identity and her sanity, as a psychotic Infertile and Psychologist forced their money grubbing, ego fulfilling agenda on her, along with their obese asses, the last sounds little Candace ever heard were Jeanne and Ponder yelling at her and Watkins cutting her down along with the gurgling in her lungs from choking on her own vomit because those three losers wouldn't let her out.
They wouldn't listen to HER FEELINGS.
They wouldn't take HER seriously.
They wouldn't let her be released from the drone status THEY wanted her to brainwash herself into SO SHE WOULD BELIEVE SHE WAS BORN AGAIN LITERALLY TO JEANNE NEWMAKER, HER INFERTILE ADOPTIVE MOTHER.
Attachment Therapy reveals the true sinister arrogance many AP's carry within their resentful hearts. And how deeply they care only about themselves and not the innocent infants and children they Adopt.
Backed by powerful child abusing industries (Adoption Agencies, Departments of Social Work, the Church and Psychiatry) and a well paid off government, they have gotten away with immoral and insipid acts that social workers would call negligence and attorneys would call personal injury if the same behavior was shown by Natural Parents to their offspring.
And thanks to Attachment Therapy they have gotten away with murder too....
and this we must also NEVER forget......

Candace's Adoptive Mother Jeanne Newmaker. Isn't she just lovely?....

CANDACE: Whoever is pushing on my head it’s not helping. I can’t do it. I can’t do it. I can’t breathe. It’s too dark under here. Please quit pushing on my head. I can’t do it. Somebody’s sitting on top of me.

CANDACE: I can’t do it. [Screams] I’m gonna die…

PONDER: Do you want to die?

CANDACE: No, but I’m about to…

WATKINS: Go ahead and die.

CANDACE: Please, please I can’t breathe.

CANDACE: Please quit pushing on me.

CANDACE: I need some help. Help! Help me please…

CANDACE: Can you let me have some oxygen? You mean, like you want me to die for real?

PONDER: Uh huh.

CANDACE: Die right now and go to heaven?

PONDER: Go ahead and die right now. For real. For real…

WATKINS: Just go ahead and die. It’s easier…

CANDACE: You said you would give me oxygen.

WATKINS: You gotta fight for it.

CANDACE: [vomits] OK, I’m throwing up. I just threw up. [Vomiting] I gotta poop. I gotta poop.

CANDACE: Uh, I’m going in my pants.

PONDER: Go ahead.

WATKINS: Stay in there with the poop and vomit.

CANDACE: Help! I can’t breathe. I can’t breathe. It’s hot. I can’t breathe…

WATKINS: Getting pretty tight in here.

PONDER: Yep… less and less air all the time…

PONDER: She gets to be stuck in her own puke and poop.

WATKINS: Uh huh. It’s her own life. Quitter.

JEANE NEWMAKER: Baby, do you want to be born?

CANDACE: [Weakly responds] No. [This is Candace’s last word.]

WATKINS: Candace is used to making her life everybody else’s problem. She’s not used to living her own life.

PONDER: Quitter, quitter, quitter, quitter, quit, quit, quit, quit. She’s a quitter…

[Ponder and Watkins chitchat about their dream homes and a million-dollar property nearby that is being remodeled.]

WATKINS: Let’s talk to the twerp.

[They unwrap Candace.]

WATKINS : Oh, there she is sleeping in her vomit.



As a psychic I know to, that you three wenches Ponder, Newmaker and Watkins, are going straight to hell.....

Candace Elizabeth Newmaker: November 19th 1989-April 18th 2000 *UPDATE: Candace has since passed to a better place. And lives in a light she that was darkened because of Adoption and Psychiatry on earth....

Rotten Tomatoes.......



I wish the gay community in Florida would GET it.
I say tomato, they say tomaaato...
Apparently they are calling a ban on gay Adoption a "form of punishment" as stated in the following article.
Uh, hello, DUH....
What the hell do they think the entire Closed Adoption System was BASED on to begin with? 
It amazes me, with everyone out there now, screaming out for their rights, crying discrimination and demanding the end of Oppression, how certain groups of people if granted the freedoms they want will inadvertently OPPRESS other groups of people. Like us. Adoptees.
Sorry, but gays have no right to continue the cycle of Closed Record Adoptions and the corruption involved in Open Adoption because they want to be accepted like heterosexual couples.
Nor do they have the right to expand the slavery like buying and selling of human beings that sometimes IS Adoption. They need to realize that babies were taken from their Real Mothers AS a form of punishment in the BSE era and EVEN now, because the woman has had a child out of wedlock or isn't making a hundred grand a year.
Gay activists also need to stop fighting the anti-beastality laws, as some gay activists do, because beastality is animal abuse and no one deserves the freedom to oppress an animal OR a child....the bottom line is NO ONE will ever be free, if some people's new founded freedoms continue to make prisoners of any living being...and as homosexuals and lesbians demand the right to Adopt they are only being hypocrites, and need to remember the wise words of MLK Jr.....
and until then, I throw rotten tomatoes at their show......(but don't worry, I don't discriminate, I have plenty reserved for Pro-Adoption Christians, The NCFA and the ACLU too...:)

"Judge rules Fla. adoption ban unconstitutional"
Wednesday, September 10, 2008

"Florida's ban on gays becoming adoptive or foster parents is unconstitutional, rules a Monroe County judge in letting a Key West adoption go forward, the Miami Herald reported.
Declaring the adoption to be in the boy's "best interest," Circuit Judge David J. Audlin Jr. ruled the Florida ban contrary to the state Constitution because it singles out a group for punishment, the Herald said.
Mississippi and Florida are the only states that forbid gays to adopt children. Florida's ban has been in place for 31 years.
"Contrary to every child welfare principle, the gay adoption ban operates as a conclusive or irrebuttable presumption that . . . it is never in the best interest of any adoptee to be adopted by a homosexual," Audlin wrote.
Florida does allow gays to become foster, or temporary, parents. The petitioner, a 52-year-old Key West man, had fostered dozens of children before attempting to adopt his special-needs foster son, now 13, who has been in his care since 2001. Both are unidentified in court documents for privacy reasons.
The state Department of Children and Families did not contest the case or attempt to uphold the ban, the Herald noted; nor did Florida's attorney general.
Thus it's not clear if anyone will appeal Audlin's ruling; until they do, legal experts told the Herald, it will hold little sway against the state and federal appellate rulings that have upheld the adoption ban, most recently in 2005.
"On the one hand, this is one trial judge in Key West," Stetson University law professor Michael Allen told the Herald. On the other, he said, "cracks begin to develop in legal doctrine. Even if it has no effect as precedent and it is not repeated someplace else, it's a crack.
"If you get enough cracks, things break." (Barbara Wilcox)
Florida is set to vote for a constitutional amendment banning marriage equality this November. The initiative was sponsored entirely by the Republican National Party. It is unclear how a change in the constitution would hinder same-sex adoption. Experts agree it won't be good for gays and lesbians".

AND:

Judge's Ruling Reopens Debate On Gay Adoption Ban
By SHERRI ACKERMAN
The Tampa Tribune
September 11, 2008

TAMPA - A South Florida judge's ruling that Florida's ban on gay adoption is unconstitutional could help convince legislators it's time to change an antiquated law, gay advocates say.
Monroe County Circuit Court Judge David J. Audlin ruled Wednesday that the state's 31-year-old ban is unconstitutional because it singles out a group for punishment.
The Key West case involves a 13-year-old boy with learning disabilities and special needs whose 52-year-old foster dad wanted to adopt him. A social worker highly recommended the dad and his partner for the adoption, but state law forbids that.
"Contrary to every child welfare principle, the gay adoption ban operates as a conclusive or irrebuttable presumption that ... it is never in the best interest of any adoptee to be adopted by a homosexual," Audlin wrote in his ruling.
Circuit judges in Florida have twice before found the statute unconstitutional, both in 1991, though the challenges stalled at the appellate level. A similar case is expected to be heard in Miami next month.
"These cases are different from prior court cases because the science wasn't in the record," said Karen Doering, a civil rights lawyer in St. Petersburg.
Prominent studies are finding there is no harm to children who are raised by gay and lesbian parents, she said. Children do better with two parents, but they don't necessarily have to be a mom and a dad, she said.
"Every reputable child welfare organization in the country opposes these bans," Doering added.
Nick Cox, regional director of the Florida Department of Children & Families, said his agency only follows what the law commands.
"We obviously can't do anything about it," he said of the ban. "We keep trying to place children in good safe homes."
Florida has 3,307 children available for adoption; about 75 percent have identified homes, DCF spokeswoman Sarrah Troncoso said. That leaves about 1,000 children in need of adoptive families, she said.
In Hillsborough County, 654 children "need safe, loving, nurturing families to grow up in," said Jeff Rainey, chief executive officer of Hillsborough Kids Inc., which oversees local adoptions for the state.
Florida's law is the only one in the nation explicitly excluding gay men and women from adopting. Utah allows only married couples to adopt and the state doesn't recognize gay marriages. Mississippi bans adoptions by couples of the same gender, but not by gay individuals.
Despite the ban, Florida welcomes gays to become foster parents and at least one local couple was allowed to go a step further.
Curtis Watson and his partner of Seminole won long-term custody of two foster girls in 2004. Pinellas County Circuit Judge Irene Sullivan thanked the couple and told the state it owed them a debt of gratitude for the way they cared for the girls, who had been severely abused.
"It was one step shy" of what the Monroe County judge did, said Watson's attorney, Deborah Eldridge of St. Petersburg.
"I'm very excited," she said of Wednesday's ruling. "Obviously it's going to be appealed ... but it's really a matter of time" before the ban on gay adoptions is overturned.
Today, Watson's daughters are 9 and 10 years old and thriving, said the mental health provider who works with foster children. "They're growing up, going to school, making friends," he said. "It's been a very good life."
He looked at the recent ruling as yet another chance at breaking the barrier.
"Of course, any step we can take lifting the ban is the step in the right direction," he said. Although he would love to adopt the girls, "we're a family, regardless."
Not everyone revels in the ruling. "It's unfortunate you get a rogue judge who wants to legislate from the bench," said David Caton of the Florida Family Association, a Tampa-based group that strives to improve America's moral environment.
Florida is not the only state that considers same sex couples inappropriate, he said. Other states may not have statutes on the subject, but they have regulations that make it difficult or impossible for gays to adopt children.
Gays are "pushing for acceptance of their lifestyle and using the court for that," Caton said. "It's unfortunate that children are caught up in the middle."

"Lucy.... you got some 'splaining to do"

Hmmm...maybe they should be exhumed so a DNA test can be done... Closed Adoption laws are such a sick joke...and if Lucy did give up her first child for Adoption, this is one time when her antics would NOT be funny...
The Associated Press
"Cassandria Lucianna Carlson, 38, of Illinois, nearly had a DNA sample to prove the claims, but the offer from an estranged Arnaz relative was suddenly rescinded, the Post reports.
Madeline "Linda" Jane Dee, Carlson's mother, was born four years before the 1951 debut of "I Love Lucy" and immediately given up for adoption to California nurse Ruth Smith. Birth records indicate Helen Elizabeth Barnes as the mother. There is no listed father.
Carlson said she has vivid, early childhood memories of a brash, red-headed woman called "Mrs. Morton" coming to visit her at her mother's house in the mid-1970s. Ball took the name Morton after divorcing Desi Sr. in 1960 and marrying Gary Morton".

Can We Trust Troy Dunn?

Please read my most recent posts about Troy Dunn who has proved after how terribly he abused Dusten and Veronica Brown he can NOT be trusted to be anything but a charlatan, a hypocrite and a money grubber!

Why Does Troy Dunn Want To Make A Career Out Of Being A Compulsive Liar And A Hypocrite? 

I've Got An F Word For You Too Troy Dunn.......

Thanks for NOTHING Troy Dunn......IT'S TIME TO CALL TNT AND GET HIM OFF YOUR TV!!!!

It's An Adoptee's DUTY......Boycott APB With Troy Dunn Premiering Tonight

APB Yields Very Low Ratings.....While Troy Dunn Continues To Insult All Of Us All Over His Facebook Page!

Troy Dunn Lies To Tulsa World! And Then Pulls A Capobianco On His Facebook Page......

Meet A REAL Locator Who Successfully Reunites Adoptees For Free.....


Can We Trust Troy Dunn? continues under the picture that symbolizes how every Adoptee in America is treated......

The article below dashed my hopes about Troy Dunn and his new Tv show as perhaps our long awaited angel who would finally give some help to Adoptees and BSE Mothers and easily and affordably, bring us back together again.

(Yes, Adoption Agencies actually have the GALL after forcing most of our Mothers to give us away, to make us pay 18 years later to find them again).

Everyone has heard about this man, and most have seen the commercial for this program, where he goes to a woman's door and tells her the baby "she gave up" for Adoption is looking for her......

"The Locator" is scheduled to premiere Saturday night at 9pm on WE, but what some may not be aware of, is that Troy Dunn is a bishop in the LDS/Mormon Church......

And I have to wonder with the totally insane and downright cruel views they hold in relation to Adoption and Adoption Records, along with all their self-centered, irrational "Forever Family" drivel, why he is trying to reunite Adoptees and "Birth Mothers" in the first place? 

I was quite taken aback as I read that after he had found his Mother's Mother, his Grandmother, she said "If I knew it was going to call, I might have aborted it"
(IT?).......

Needless to say, Dunn's Mother is estranged from this woman.

But I have to wonder too, if this show is just another catalyst to push the relentless image of sainthood for the Holy Pro-Closed Adoption Record AP, and if in fact he really even did find his Grandmother and she really did say that.

Being Adopted, and raised in a situation as psychotic and discriminatory as being told I could not even legally know my OWN Mother's name, has made me a bit skeptical of everything, and so have all the lies I was told by the Agency that Adopted me out.

The fact that we used and abused born out of wedlockers can trust no one concerning the subject of Adoption, just goes with the territory I guess...as all involved have their own agenda......

Feel free to click this link which will lead you to the entire Digg story from which I just quoted and decide for yourself if he is here to help us or hinder us.......

And as usual bring your *bastard barf bucket with you......

(*PLEASE SEE UPDATE AT THE END OF THIS POST)

Lost and Found
LDS TV host turns family searches into his life's work
By Scott D. Pierce
Deseret News
Published: Monday, Sept. 1, 2008 12:47 a.m. MDT
BEVERLY HILLS, Calif.

Troy Dunn built a business and a life searching for people's missing relatives and friends, and it couldn't have started any closer to home.
With his own mother.
"Mom here is the reason that I started doing this," Dunn said. "She's adopted. I grew up listening to her talk about her desire to find her birth family."
It was his first such search.
"We gathered up the information that she had found and were able to locate her family," he said. "And I placed a phone call to Mom. It was a Saturday afternoon. I said, 'Mom, are you sitting down? I'm holding the piece of paper that is your mother's phone number.'
"Mom began to weep in a way that I've never heard her cry, and I knew at that moment this is exactly what I wanted to do."
That grew into a business that is hugely successful — both in terms of finding lost people and financially. Over the past 18 years, he's found more than 40,000 people. In 2002, Dunn sold the business to the Utah-based ancestry.com but still takes an active part in searches. In addition to working as a motivational speaker, author and investigator, he's set up a lot of reunions for TV shows over the past decade.
He also finds time to be a bishop in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Fort Meyers, Fla.
Dunn's television exposure has led to his own TV show. "The Locator" debuts on cable/satellite channel WE on Saturday.
Ironically, Katie Dunn's story didn't have a happy ending. As a matter of fact, it "still makes me cry," she said.
"Her birth mother rejected her," Troy Dunn said. And she did so by using "the most painful phrase I've ever heard in my 18 years of doing this."
"She ... said, 'If I knew it was going to call, I might have aborted it.'"
Which was the toughest thing Katie Dunn could have heard.
"Now, did I take it gracefully? Not at first," she said. "But I wasn't going to push myself into someone's life where I wasn't wanted. And I knew this could be stirring up such pain. And that's the last thing I want for the woman who gave me life."
And she has no regrets.
"I'd do it over again in a heartbeat," Katie Dunn said. "I wanted a couple of things out of it. I hoped for a new beginning, and I needed closure. I got the closure, which was a huge gift."
As a matter of fact, Katie Dunn said the experience turned out to be a "total positive." For one thing, she met biological siblings she never knew existed.
"But birthdays and Mother's Day continued to be really tender spots for me, and I kept thinking, 'Maybe she'll call. Maybe, maybe maybe.' Until I just had to reach a point to let go and say, 'You know what? It's OK and it's over.'


**DEAR READER BEWARE UPDATE:
MANY OF THE COMMENTS I MENTION BELOW HAVE SINCE BEEN DELETED FROM THIS NEWSPAPER ARTICLE.  PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THE LIES TOLD OFFLINE ABOUT FIRST MOTHERS, ADOPTION AND ADOPTEES ARE ALSO STILL BEING TOLD ONLINE EVERYWHERE....

**DEAR READER BEWARE:
There are comments all over the forum for this article written by LDS social workers, LDS Adoption Agency owners and employees who vie for Closed Adoption records and who want single women to place their babies so the 27 Mormon Adoption Agencies (a part of the NCFA, want adoptees files sealed forever) can continue to charge LDS PAP's (Prospective Adoptive Parents) fees in the thousands (20-50) to Adopt an infant. Social Workers who successfully manipulate an unwed Mother to hand her child over to strangers, also GET COMMISSIONS, and one of the sales pitches they use online and off, is that because they may not have a lot of money at the moment, they should give their flesh and blood to other people-they try to make a temporary situation the Real Mother is in, into it will be that way for the child's whole life if she keeps her baby. This is ridiculous of course, as those who financially gain from the Adoption Industry have no way of knowing this. (This is also done to punish an unmarried female for conceiving out of wedlock, without any thought by so called "professionals", how being separated from one's Real Mother and family can cause permanent emotional harm to the child). This is also the mainstream coercive tactic, to separate Mother and child for all Adoption Agencies in the USA and for the Department of Social Work).

Better Than Bingo.......

Would there of been a who coerced the most babies from deviants category too?....
Well I would of voted for The Flying Nun then, because we all know her ability to sail through the sky is truly "a gift from God" so she can view from above all the pregnant women not wearing a wedding ring.....


Italian Priest Organizes Beauty Contest for Nuns
Aug 25th 2008
By Tom Radler
WeirdNews

"While Catholic school girls have long garnered attention from the opposite sex, their habit-wearing teachers have never been known for their sex appeal. Nuns seem to be OK with that -- after all, one doesn't pursue an austere life because she wants to get whistles from construction workers.

But an enterprising Italian priest is now hoping to cast a spotlight on the sisterhood by holding the first beauty pageant exclusively for nuns called "Miss Sister Italy."

"Nuns are above all women and beauty is a gift from God," said priest Antonio Rungi of the southern Italian diocese of Modragone. "This contest will be a way to show there isn't just the beauty we see on television but also a more discrete charm."

In true 21st-century fashion, nuns who want to participate can send their pictures to Rungi, who will publish it on his blog to be voted on. He claims the nuns themselves have been clamoring for such a pageant, and he expects 1,000 participants.

A swimsuit segment and other deliciously sacrilegious competitions are, unfortunately, not in the works."

UPDATE:
"Father Rungi was forced to suspend the contest at the urging of his superiors. He claims that his attempt to highlight nuns' "interior beauty" was mistaken for a competition based solely on physicality".