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Sunday, September 28, 2008

Celebrities Speak Out Against CPS

"The foster care system is totally obsolete. Kids are being killed, abused and even experimented on.At age 18, they are aged out of the system, they give them $5 and a bag of lunch and say go live your life. Most of these kids end up in trouble, jail, or a mental institution. All the kids in the group homes, juvenile detention centers and over half of the people in prison overall come from the foster care system."
Darryl "DMC" McDaniels

"When you look at the number of African American children in foster care around the country and you look at the woe that has befallen the children, it breaks your heart. A lady said to me in Oakland, Ca., "Mr. Cosby, you should see them when they get out of the van and they're being transferred from one house to another and they have everything they own in the world in a black Hefty bag that they're carrying. They look like refugees." She said that you look at the children's faces and there's neither happiness nor anger. There's nothing left. If by age 18, you've been in over 20 homes, how do you trust anybody anymore? Our people need to feel these things and hear these things. They need to feel it like when you rip a Band-Aid off. We need to feel the sting. Otherwise, it becomes as ordinary as saying, "Pass the salt." How many more stories do we have to hear? Come on people, it's time for change".
Bill Cosby

"I am tired of children being removed from parents who love them.I know personally of a similar case.... I and several young actors will start talking about this case and highlight this issue in the international press if this will not stop."
Q'orianka Kilcher

"To be honest with you, I hold what I call a flawed culture in the Department of Child Safety responsible.They struck me as people with no morals, no ethics and they are only there for careers and not for a concern about the people who they are taxpayer-funded to serve.I find it evil and I think the taxpayer needs to know.It would seem the care of children has been lost in bureaucratic games."
Don Greene

"The safety I fear was the abuse in foster homes, because I wasn't abused and raped on the streets the message I got was that the streets were safer in my mind; when your young you think that your immortal."
Cupcake Brown, Author of "A Peice Of Cake"





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Saturday, September 27, 2008

Children Protected To DEATH By Child Protective Services.......






"There are more than half a million children and youth in the U.S. foster care system today. Studies reveal that children are 11 times more likely to be abused in state care than they are in their own homes, and 7 times more likely to die as a result of abuse in the foster care system."

John Walsh
"America's Most Wanted"
April 16, 2003

It IS a fact.
More children are killed, molested and abused BY CPS then they ever are by their Natural Parents.....

Please visit this beautiful website created to remember all the children murdered due to and by in some cases, Child Welfare Workers AND sign the Care2 PETITION to stop this from going on and to instate a Victims Of Child Welfare Memorial Day on every October 22nd.

"The state is now more involved than it has ever been in the raising of children, and children are now more neglected, abused, and mistreated than they have been in our time. This is not a coincidence, and, with all due respect, I am here to tell you: It does not take a village to raise a child. It takes a family."
Senator Robert Dole

"Suncana Sesic Alvarado has created a memorial website as a loving tribute to
Children Protected To DEATH By Child Protective Services.
Visit the memorial website and share in their memory by:
Reading about Protected To DEATH By Child Protective Services
Lighting candles
Offering your condolences
Viewing photo albums
and more
Upload photos now to Protected To DEATH By Child Protective Services
website, or send flowers or tokens of remembrance.
Together we can keep these children's memory close to our hearts".

Thanks to the Family Rights Association's website for this article.
http://www.familyrightsassociation.com

Rotten Tomatoes.......







I wish the gay community in Florida would GET it.
I say tomato, they say tomaaato...
Apparently they are calling a ban on gay Adoption a "form of punishment" as stated in the following article.
Uh, hello, DUH....
What the hell do they think the entire Closed Adoption System was BASED on to begin with? 
It amazes me, with everyone out there now, screaming out for their rights, crying discrimination and demanding the end of Oppression, how certain groups of people if granted the freedoms they want will inadvertently OPPRESS other groups of people. Like us. Adoptees.
Sorry, but gays have no right to continue the cycle of Closed Record Adoptions and the corruption involved in Open Adoption because they want to be accepted like heterosexual couples.
Nor do they have the right to expand the slavery like buying and selling of human beings that sometimes IS Adoption. They need to realize that babies were taken from their Real Mothers AS a form of punishment in the BSE era and EVEN now, because the woman has had a child out of wedlock or isn't making a hundred grand a year.
Gay activists also need to stop fighting the anti-beastality laws, as some gay activists do, because beastality is animal abuse and no one deserves the freedom to oppress an animal OR a child....the bottom line is NO ONE will ever be free, if some people's new founded freedoms continue to make prisoners of any living being...and as homosexuals and lesbians demand the right to Adopt they are only being hypocrites, and need to remember the wise words of MLK Jr.....
and until then, I throw rotten tomatoes at their show......(but don't worry, I don't discriminate, I have plenty reserved for Pro-Adoption Christians, The NCFA and the ACLU too...:)

"Judge rules Fla. adoption ban unconstitutional"
Wednesday, September 10, 2008

"Florida's ban on gays becoming adoptive or foster parents is unconstitutional, rules a Monroe County judge in letting a Key West adoption go forward, the Miami Herald reported.
Declaring the adoption to be in the boy's "best interest," Circuit Judge David J. Audlin Jr. ruled the Florida ban contrary to the state Constitution because it singles out a group for punishment, the Herald said.
Mississippi and Florida are the only states that forbid gays to adopt children. Florida's ban has been in place for 31 years.
"Contrary to every child welfare principle, the gay adoption ban operates as a conclusive or irrebuttable presumption that . . . it is never in the best interest of any adoptee to be adopted by a homosexual," Audlin wrote.
Florida does allow gays to become foster, or temporary, parents. The petitioner, a 52-year-old Key West man, had fostered dozens of children before attempting to adopt his special-needs foster son, now 13, who has been in his care since 2001. Both are unidentified in court documents for privacy reasons.
The state Department of Children and Families did not contest the case or attempt to uphold the ban, the Herald noted; nor did Florida's attorney general.
Thus it's not clear if anyone will appeal Audlin's ruling; until they do, legal experts told the Herald, it will hold little sway against the state and federal appellate rulings that have upheld the adoption ban, most recently in 2005.
"On the one hand, this is one trial judge in Key West," Stetson University law professor Michael Allen told the Herald. On the other, he said, "cracks begin to develop in legal doctrine. Even if it has no effect as precedent and it is not repeated someplace else, it's a crack.
"If you get enough cracks, things break." (Barbara Wilcox)
Florida is set to vote for a constitutional amendment banning marriage equality this November. The initiative was sponsored entirely by the Republican National Party. It is unclear how a change in the constitution would hinder same-sex adoption. Experts agree it won't be good for gays and lesbians".

AND:

Judge's Ruling Reopens Debate On Gay Adoption Ban
By SHERRI ACKERMAN
The Tampa Tribune
September 11, 2008

TAMPA - A South Florida judge's ruling that Florida's ban on gay adoption is unconstitutional could help convince legislators it's time to change an antiquated law, gay advocates say.
Monroe County Circuit Court Judge David J. Audlin ruled Wednesday that the state's 31-year-old ban is unconstitutional because it singles out a group for punishment.
The Key West case involves a 13-year-old boy with learning disabilities and special needs whose 52-year-old foster dad wanted to adopt him. A social worker highly recommended the dad and his partner for the adoption, but state law forbids that.
"Contrary to every child welfare principle, the gay adoption ban operates as a conclusive or irrebuttable presumption that ... it is never in the best interest of any adoptee to be adopted by a homosexual," Audlin wrote in his ruling.
Circuit judges in Florida have twice before found the statute unconstitutional, both in 1991, though the challenges stalled at the appellate level. A similar case is expected to be heard in Miami next month.
"These cases are different from prior court cases because the science wasn't in the record," said Karen Doering, a civil rights lawyer in St. Petersburg.
Prominent studies are finding there is no harm to children who are raised by gay and lesbian parents, she said. Children do better with two parents, but they don't necessarily have to be a mom and a dad, she said.
"Every reputable child welfare organization in the country opposes these bans," Doering added.
Nick Cox, regional director of the Florida Department of Children & Families, said his agency only follows what the law commands.
"We obviously can't do anything about it," he said of the ban. "We keep trying to place children in good safe homes."
Florida has 3,307 children available for adoption; about 75 percent have identified homes, DCF spokeswoman Sarrah Troncoso said. That leaves about 1,000 children in need of adoptive families, she said.
In Hillsborough County, 654 children "need safe, loving, nurturing families to grow up in," said Jeff Rainey, chief executive officer of Hillsborough Kids Inc., which oversees local adoptions for the state.
Florida's law is the only one in the nation explicitly excluding gay men and women from adopting. Utah allows only married couples to adopt and the state doesn't recognize gay marriages. Mississippi bans adoptions by couples of the same gender, but not by gay individuals.
Despite the ban, Florida welcomes gays to become foster parents and at least one local couple was allowed to go a step further.
Curtis Watson and his partner of Seminole won long-term custody of two foster girls in 2004. Pinellas County Circuit Judge Irene Sullivan thanked the couple and told the state it owed them a debt of gratitude for the way they cared for the girls, who had been severely abused.
"It was one step shy" of what the Monroe County judge did, said Watson's attorney, Deborah Eldridge of St. Petersburg.
"I'm very excited," she said of Wednesday's ruling. "Obviously it's going to be appealed ... but it's really a matter of time" before the ban on gay adoptions is overturned.
Today, Watson's daughters are 9 and 10 years old and thriving, said the mental health provider who works with foster children. "They're growing up, going to school, making friends," he said. "It's been a very good life."
He looked at the recent ruling as yet another chance at breaking the barrier.
"Of course, any step we can take lifting the ban is the step in the right direction," he said. Although he would love to adopt the girls, "we're a family, regardless."
Not everyone revels in the ruling. "It's unfortunate you get a rogue judge who wants to legislate from the bench," said David Caton of the Florida Family Association, a Tampa-based group that strives to improve America's moral environment.
Florida is not the only state that considers same sex couples inappropriate, he said. Other states may not have statutes on the subject, but they have regulations that make it difficult or impossible for gays to adopt children.
Gays are "pushing for acceptance of their lifestyle and using the court for that," Caton said. "It's unfortunate that children are caught up in the middle."




Tuesday, September 16, 2008

"Lucy.... you got some 'splaining to do"

Hmmm...maybe they should be exhumed so a DNA test can be done... Closed Adoption laws are such a sick joke...and if Lucy did give up her first child for Adoption, this is one time when her antics would NOT be funny...
The Associated Press
"Cassandria Lucianna Carlson, 38, of Illinois, nearly had a DNA sample to prove the claims, but the offer from an estranged Arnaz relative was suddenly rescinded, the Post reports.
Madeline "Linda" Jane Dee, Carlson's mother, was born four years before the 1951 debut of "I Love Lucy" and immediately given up for adoption to California nurse Ruth Smith. Birth records indicate Helen Elizabeth Barnes as the mother. There is no listed father.
Carlson said she has vivid, early childhood memories of a brash, red-headed woman called "Mrs. Morton" coming to visit her at her mother's house in the mid-1970s. Ball took the name Morton after divorcing Desi Sr. in 1960 and marrying Gary Morton".

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Can We Trust Troy Dunn?

Please read my most recent posts about Troy Dunn who has proved after how terribly he abused Dusten and Veronica Brown he can NOT be trusted to be anything but a charlatan, a hypocrite and a money grubber!

Why Does Troy Dunn Want To Make A Career Out Of Being A Compulsive Liar And A Hypocrite? 

I've Got An F Word For You Too Troy Dunn.......

Thanks for NOTHING Troy Dunn......IT'S TIME TO CALL TNT AND GET HIM OFF YOUR TV!!!!

It's An Adoptee's DUTY......Boycott APB With Troy Dunn Premiering Tonight

APB Yields Very Low Ratings.....While Troy Dunn Continues To Insult All Of Us All Over His Facebook Page!

Troy Dunn Lies To Tulsa World! And Then Pulls A Capobianco On His Facebook Page......

Meet A REAL Locator Who Successfully Reunites Adoptees For Free.....


Can We Trust Troy Dunn? continues under the picture that symbolizes how every Adoptee in America is treated......









The article below dashed my hopes about Troy Dunn and his new Tv show as perhaps our long awaited angel who would finally give some help to Adoptees and BSE Mothers and easily and affordably, bring us back together again.

(Yes, Adoption Agencies actually have the GALL after forcing most of our Mothers to give us away, to make us pay 18 years later to find them again).

Everyone has heard about this man, and most have seen the commercial for this program, where he goes to a woman's door and tells her the baby "she gave up" for Adoption is looking for her......

"The Locator" is scheduled to premiere Saturday night at 9pm on WE, but what some may not be aware of, is that Troy Dunn is a bishop in the LDS/Mormon Church......

And I have to wonder with the totally insane and downright cruel views they hold in relation to Adoption and Adoption Records, along with all their self-centered, irrational "Forever Family" drivel, why he is trying to reunite Adoptees and "Birth Mothers" in the first place? 

I was quite taken aback as I read that after he had found his Mother's Mother, his Grandmother, she said "If I knew it was going to call, I might have aborted it"
(IT?).......

Needless to say, Dunn's Mother is estranged from this woman.

But I have to wonder too, if this show is just another catalyst to push the relentless image of sainthood for the Holy Pro-Closed Adoption Record AP, and if in fact he really even did find his Grandmother and she really did say that.

Being Adopted, and raised in a situation as psychotic and discriminatory as being told I could not even legally know my OWN Mother's name, has made me a bit skeptical of everything, and so have all the lies I was told by the Agency that Adopted me out.

The fact that we used and abused born out of wedlockers can trust no one concerning the subject of Adoption, just goes with the territory I guess...as all involved have their own agenda......

Feel free to click this link which will lead you to the entire Digg story from which I just quoted and decide for yourself if he is here to help us or hinder us.......

And as usual bring your *bastard barf bucket with you......

(*PLEASE SEE UPDATE AT THE END OF THIS POST)

Lost and Found
LDS TV host turns family searches into his life's work
By Scott D. Pierce
Deseret News
Published: Monday, Sept. 1, 2008 12:47 a.m. MDT
BEVERLY HILLS, Calif.

Troy Dunn built a business and a life searching for people's missing relatives and friends, and it couldn't have started any closer to home.
With his own mother.
"Mom here is the reason that I started doing this," Dunn said. "She's adopted. I grew up listening to her talk about her desire to find her birth family."
It was his first such search.
"We gathered up the information that she had found and were able to locate her family," he said. "And I placed a phone call to Mom. It was a Saturday afternoon. I said, 'Mom, are you sitting down? I'm holding the piece of paper that is your mother's phone number.'
"Mom began to weep in a way that I've never heard her cry, and I knew at that moment this is exactly what I wanted to do."
That grew into a business that is hugely successful — both in terms of finding lost people and financially. Over the past 18 years, he's found more than 40,000 people. In 2002, Dunn sold the business to the Utah-based ancestry.com but still takes an active part in searches. In addition to working as a motivational speaker, author and investigator, he's set up a lot of reunions for TV shows over the past decade.
He also finds time to be a bishop in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Fort Meyers, Fla.
Dunn's television exposure has led to his own TV show. "The Locator" debuts on cable/satellite channel WE on Saturday.
Ironically, Katie Dunn's story didn't have a happy ending. As a matter of fact, it "still makes me cry," she said.
"Her birth mother rejected her," Troy Dunn said. And she did so by using "the most painful phrase I've ever heard in my 18 years of doing this."
"She ... said, 'If I knew it was going to call, I might have aborted it.'"
Which was the toughest thing Katie Dunn could have heard.
"Now, did I take it gracefully? Not at first," she said. "But I wasn't going to push myself into someone's life where I wasn't wanted. And I knew this could be stirring up such pain. And that's the last thing I want for the woman who gave me life."
And she has no regrets.
"I'd do it over again in a heartbeat," Katie Dunn said. "I wanted a couple of things out of it. I hoped for a new beginning, and I needed closure. I got the closure, which was a huge gift."
As a matter of fact, Katie Dunn said the experience turned out to be a "total positive." For one thing, she met biological siblings she never knew existed.
"But birthdays and Mother's Day continued to be really tender spots for me, and I kept thinking, 'Maybe she'll call. Maybe, maybe maybe.' Until I just had to reach a point to let go and say, 'You know what? It's OK and it's over.'


**DEAR READER BEWARE UPDATE:
MANY OF THE COMMENTS I MENTION BELOW HAVE SINCE BEEN DELETED FROM THIS NEWSPAPER ARTICLE.  PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THE LIES TOLD OFFLINE ABOUT FIRST MOTHERS, ADOPTION AND ADOPTEES ARE ALSO STILL BEING TOLD ONLINE EVERYWHERE....

**DEAR READER BEWARE:
There are comments all over the forum for this article written by LDS social workers, LDS Adoption Agency owners and employees who vie for Closed Adoption records and who want single women to place their babies so the 27 Mormon Adoption Agencies (a part of the NCFA, want adoptees files sealed forever) can continue to charge LDS PAP's (Prospective Adoptive Parents) fees in the thousands (20-50) to Adopt an infant. Social Workers who successfully manipulate an unwed Mother to hand her child over to strangers, also GET COMMISSIONS, and one of the sales pitches they use online and off, is that because they may not have a lot of money at the moment, they should give their flesh and blood to other people-they try to make a temporary situation the Real Mother is in, into it will be that way for the child's whole life if she keeps her baby. This is ridiculous of course, as those who financially gain from the Adoption Industry have no way of knowing this. (This is also done to punish an unmarried female for conceiving out of wedlock, without any thought by so called "professionals", how being separated from one's Real Mother and family can cause permanent emotional harm to the child). This is also the mainstream coercive tactic, to separate Mother and child for all Adoption Agencies in the USA and for the Department of Social Work).